Then she should stay at home and take care of the husbands needs which is his right why do you want to ignore the husbands needs.If you're a marrying a Somali girl you're the one providing and taking care of her you shouldn't depend on her to contribute financially Cadaan don't have same deen as us
Secondly if you don't want your wife to wear the pants in the relationship you need be more involved in the household
If he doesnt want you to work then it should be.