"inspiring the interest of men is too pedestrian". But its certainly cyber though.I know many guys notch how many women they sleep with, but what I've noticed is how drastically different the value of that contact reads on both ends. Mutual interest is a win for him, but not necessarily of any special standing for her.
Among women, in my experience when we're talking about guys, numbers are not of special interest, but the actual sex is though, and every once in a while, there's special pertinence in a specific guy or two who holds whatever characteristics are of value to her, possibly attaining special standing above the rest she's dated or slept with who're the rest of them inconsequential. But with the guys, it's like every last one is made of consequence precisely bc they're part of some 'count' which is ultimately used to self-define his abilities, his appeal, and his personal value judgement of himself. With girls, inspiring the interest of men is too pedestrian a thing to give special importance to how many of them have wanted you.