If there was enough woman for every man to have multiple, and they were mature enough to have multiple wives, and had the ability and energy to exercise it, I would say 75% of men would
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I disagree alot of women do not enter polgyny because they need money. If that was the only reason there would be no men who arent rich who have multiple wives, but that is not the case,
You can’t use cheating as an example as in the Western world women cheat near enough at the same rate. Obviously, women aren’t naturally polygamous.
I think we should put cheating to the side as that will open up a host of questions.
Society is built on men and women being of equal amounts. Only near the DOJ will there be 50 women to 1 man. For every woman, there is 1 man.
War and underclass men is why polygamy can ever exist. So my question is, how can it be default nature of men if it relies on factors such as these? If men are polygamous, some men are destined to never marry.
With regards to polygamy, I do believe it is a valid solution to the issue of war and poverty. At least women aren’t left without a partner, although men would be.
I think my default I do not mean men are not created to be in monogamy bc they are but men naturally want to be polgynous which is their fitra, it is kind of like a luxury that every man wants to have, but not every man can, which is why in jannah men will all get multiple wives,unlike this dunya where men will settle for one woman bc it will fit their dunya requirments
you’re full of shit.
I feel like the reason woman cheat and the reason men cheat are abit different but then again I could be wrong.
I feel like with one good husband a woman would never think about being with another man
(if she is a good woman)
but if a man had a good wife he would stilll think about being with another woman(even if he is the best of men)
Which comes down to Polygynous by nature. Monogamous by necessity.
Hunter gatherers didn’t have any wealth, elites, or hierarchies. Everyone was equal. Men didn’t have much of an advantage over each other. One man couldn’t monopolise power. This meant that monogamy was the standard.Lol. So all of a sudden when men started eating vegetables that’s when they decided that they wanted multiple women? Somehow veggies changed our bodies and we decided to practice polygyny. QASHIN. By your same logic, we should also marry our sisters since adam’s children married each other.
No where in history did the human psyche change? our bodies and natural inclinations have always been the same. Our conditions only changed.
The early generations had to be monogamous by necessity. There weren’t hella women around. That doesn’t mean we’re monogamous by nature.
Hmm, good point. Allah does promise men multiple wives which is something men do want.
I simply have issues with labeling it as ‘nature’ because when you do that, you’re also indirectly labeling monogamy as unnatural, which is false. Usually, this is the argument a lot of Muslim men are falling into which is basically Western pseudoscience and goes against the fact that throughout history, polygamy has always only been for a select few. Something that can only be practiced by less than 5% can never be the norm.
I would say they are not mutually exclusive
That is literally my point. Polygamous marriages comes from societies in which there is an underclass of men. In order for a man to have 4 wives, at least 3 men are left with no spouses and that is how it was in different points in history.
Also, something that is practiced through history by less than 5% can never be the norm. Do men desire polygamy? Yes. Allah would not have promised men two wives if that isn’t an inner desire of man. But desire is different to being wired for something.
Ur getting triggered easily woman do not find that attractive are u sure u have game?
I think the way a mans body is designed and everything about it makes it more advantageous to take on multiple woman, same with the way a mans sexuality works, but I do not think that its unnatural for a man to not have multiple wives, although to a certain extent they are wired for it
Sometimes when u don’t forget your meds, you make sense.
If Allah created more women than men naturally, you’d have a point. But society has always been pretty equal.
A truly polygamous society in which most men tried to marry multiple women would disadvantage men as a whole in the long run. Only a small % of men will get all the women. The vast majority will get no women and will be lucky to even get one. That was a case at one point. Even our heritage attests to this as Shimbiris illustrated.
You and other average young men will never be able to spread your genes and father children. I suppose it fits in Darwin’s survival of the fittest.
Bruh I always make sense, you guys just don't understand my game cos ur experience with women is limited, some of what u say makes sense, alot of it is just overgeneralisations and misunderstandings.
I am saying men are wired to be capable for polgyny not that they are only wired for it
I believe men are all wired to go to war its just part of life but I do not believe war is something that humans should engage in or whatever.
Polgyny isnt something that will always be applicable but a man will always have the ability to exercise it needs be
I am not gaming angelina brother I am having an educated conversation, u need to get off ur computer and chat to some gyal if u think this is gaming anyone