Marriage tips for the brothers

[Bundasliga]

Housework, cleaning, and cooking is not tiring at all. This is a huge misconception.

Its giving sexist.
Housework,cleaning & cooking are the most physical labor in the world!
And on top of that women do it for free!!!!! Have some respect misogynistic pig

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

Its tiring for unfit or disabled ppl. I assume she isnt disabled so ill take the first option that she is unfit

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[Amk]

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Yh i cook and clean to help my mum and it doesnt take any effort. It only is tiring for unfit ppl who sit down all day.

 

[Hybrid()]

Its tiring for unfit or disabled ppl. I assume she isnt disabled so ill take the first option that she is unfit

a housewife who cant maintain good housekeeping should be a red flag for every farah.

 

[Xoxoxo]

My sisters some of these men have showed us that they aren’t shit!!! Proverb yourself and your peace because balding and gaining weight for insecure faaraxs like OP is not worth it!!!

 

[Angelina]

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When you're from a big family and that is all you do, it is.

Most housewives will tell you this, but you guys who have your hooyos and sisters cleaning after you think overwise.

 

[Angelina]

Its tiring for unfit or disabled ppl. I assume she isnt disabled so ill take the first option that she is unfit

Lol it is, housewives are routinely tired especially when they have little kids and a big family.

I can't take you little boys who wash dishes occasionally seriously. Get out of here.

 

[Amk]

Lol it is, housewives are routinely tired especially when they have little kids and a big family.

I can't take you little boys who wash dishes occasionally seriously. Get out of here.

Little kids are alot of work not washing dishes

 

[mrlog]

Here are some simple tips for younger brothers looking to get married. These are tips that most people are too afraid to say but are absolutely critical to fruitful marriage.

1) never legally marry. Always just do Islamic nikaax. This will protect you and your assets in the future and gives you more options to marry a second wife from abroad

2) don’t let your wife have any friends especially single Freinds. Women give each other bad advice and they can turn her against you

3) monitor how much time your wife spends with her family. Family can also give women bad advice and turn her against you

4) don’t give your wife too much compliments. Point out her flaws regularly to keep her in check and dependent on you

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[Angelina]

a housewife who cant maintain good housekeeping should be a red flag for every farah.

Little kids are alot of work not washing dishes

That is easy. I'm from a big family, so when I think of housework, i'm thinking of cleaning 4-5 bed house, cooking meals for 8 plus, running after youngesters ect.

You lot think washing dishes is 'house work'. Small dishes, mate your hooyo so much more than that and its tedious and boring.

That is why women in Africa and Middle East who can afford it have maids and these maids get tired.

 

[Amk]

That is easy. I'm from a big family, so when I think of housework, i'm thinking of cleaning 4-5 bed house, cooking meals for 8 plus, running after youngesters ect.

You lot think washing dishes is 'house work'. Small dishes, mate your hooyo so much more than that and its tedious and boring.

I clean my house. and cook food for the family. I understand where u r coming from. But work is just life. If ur getting tired physically doing this u need to excercise.
Mental tiredness is inevitable to happen to anyone doing any kind of work

 

[Angelina]

I clean my house. and cook food for the family. I understand where u r coming from. But work is just life. If ur getting tired physically doing this u need to excercise.
Mental tiredness is inevitable to happen to anyone doing any kind of work

Saxib, its tiring. Lets put some respect to housewives who do this day in and out. People with money in Africa and Middle East have maids because it and their maids get tired. Its around the clock when you have kids.

Obviously its different if you live alone, or there aren't any kids in the house.

 

[mrlog]

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[Amk]

Saxib, its tiring. Lets put some respect to housewives who do this day in and out. People with money in Africa and Middle East have maids because it and their maids get tired. Its around the clock when you have kids.

Obviously its different if you live alone, or there aren't any kids in the house.

It is work and is tiring. Im not denying it. But ur making it out like its something exceptional, its just life, if a women wasnt doing housework she would be doing something else tiring. Thats just life.

 

[Angelina]

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Okay great, if its easy with all the new inventions you men can now do it yourself.

I love technology, so start loading the dishwasher.

 

[Amk]

Also we have so

Saxib, its tiring. Lets put some respect to housewives who do this day in and out. People with money in Africa and Middle East have maids because it and their maids get tired. Its around the clock when you have kids.

Obviously its different if you live alone, or there aren't any kids in the house.

many convivences in the west It makes it 10x easier, but at the same time it makes us alot more weaker bc we are less active all the time, u dont see ppl in certain countries complaining about the workload or llife bc that is just life for them and they accept it.
Imagine a man started complaining that he has to work for his family to provide for them

 

[Giovanni]

Here are some simple tips for younger brothers looking to get married. These are tips that most people are too afraid to say but are absolutely critical to fruitful marriage.

1) never legally marry. Always just do Islamic nikaax. This will protect you and your assets in the future and gives you more options to marry a second wife from abroad

2) don’t let your wife have any friends especially single Freinds. Women give each other bad advice and they can turn her against you

3) monitor how much time your wife spends with her family. Family can also give women bad advice and turn her against you

4) don’t give your wife too much compliments. Point out her flaws regularly to keep her in check and dependent on you

Even if you marry legally, if she moves in with you they count it

 

[Shimbiris]

Saxib, its tiring. Lets put some respect to housewives who do this day in and out. People with money in Africa and Middle East have maids because it and their maids get tired. Its around the clock when you have kids.

Obviously its different if you live alone, or there aren't any kids in the house.

No man should want to be married to a housewife unless he himself is living off assets and is a house husband. It will foster dysfunction and drive the poor woman mad.

Sure but just wanted highlight the difference between that and a woman in her traditional setting where such inadequacy would not really be present. Take nomadic Somali women. They were every bit as important to the family's survival as the man and had daily tasks and responsibilities. Making the tent by gathering all the materials and fashioning them together like the poles, ropes and mats. Tending the sheep and goats who were the most numerous livestock historically and the main source of meat, preparing all the crucial dairy products like ghee and sour-milks, preparing all the meals, protecting and doing much of the emotional parenting for the kids alongside many other duties. These women would have never felt useless. The man likewise was responsible for defending the entire family from raids, for conducting raids of his own if needed, for tending to the larger animals like the camels and horses, for teaching the sons their future responsibilities, for being the family's representative in matters of trade and legality and so forth. There was a harmony, no one was truly more important than the other or could truly talk down to the other like what they did wasn't of absolutely crucial value.

This is the natural state of women in hunter-gatherer, pastoralist and farmer settings, as a man's partner in daily survival. This is what they mentally evolved in. Taking that being and expecting them to be happy as some well-off housewife is bound to cause mental distress in my opinion.

 

[Angelina]

It is work and is tiring. Im not denying it. But ur making it out like its something exceptional, its just life, if a women wasnt doing housework she would be doing something else tiring. Thats just life.

Men talk about their job being tiring and I don't see women complaining about men mentioning this.

Anyways, I'm not a housewife. I work.

If i'm allowed to say work outside the home is tiring, then I can say work inside the home is as well.

 

[En_Sabah Nur]

Even if you marry legally, if she moves in with you they count it

You have more protections as common law than being legally married