Marital rape is real

[VixR]

Read again. As I said either strangers or people they did not want to have sex with. Wives they have sex with their husbands on a regular basis, hence this is not even close as traumatizing as with someone else - let it be someone you know or a stranger.

Most women know their rapists. Stranger rape is comparatively very rare.

Even if you’ve had sex on a regular basis, in that moment she didn’t want to have sex with you, and you forced her against her will. That is rape. If her own husband is the offender, it’s even more traumatic.

 

[Basra]

Sometimes I wonder if you are woman you’re probably an old man with shaax belly. @Gibiin-Udug we need to do some detective work.

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[Younes Osman]

If she refuses there is other ways to punish her. Just get a side chick.

"could the side chick be her best friend who has naasaha waaweyn"?

 

[Younes Osman]

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[Bohol]

"could the side chick be her best friend who has naasaha waaweyn"?

Preferably her sister or cousin. That shall teach her a lesson.

 

[AussieHustler]

She's not allowed to say no..

@error

Was your teacher in Rinkeby Fuad Shangoole? She can say, No and stuff like, 'I'm sick, tired and not in the mood', then what will you do?

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

Sometimes I wonder if you are woman you’re probably an old man with shaax belly. @Gibiin-Udug we need to do some detective work.

She’s in her 40s and a pick me worst combination ever.

 

[Samaalic Era]

@Samaalic Era

What will you do if the wife says, no?

It's part of the nikah which the woman signed up to. Its also selfish and unless she has a legitimate reason for it

 

[Basra]

She’s in her 40s and a pick me worst combination ever.

I am 9 & 20

 

[Younes Osman]

It's part of the nikah which the woman signed up to. Its also selfish and unless she has a legitimate reason for it

it sounds like a leasing contract....

 

[NotMyL]

She’s in her 40s and a pick me worst combination ever.

That’s menopause age whats the point

 

[Samaalic Era]

it sounds like a leasing contract....

It's the deen sxb

 

[AussieHustler]

It's part of the nikah which the woman signed up to. Its also selfish and unless she has a legitimate reason for it

@Samaalic Era

Sxb, answer the question. She said, No, what will you do?

 

[Saredo]

The answers in this thread are very disturbing.

 

[error]

@error

Was your teacher in Rinkeby Fuad Shangoole? She can say, No and stuff like, 'I'm sick, tired and not in the mood', then what will you do?

She needs a legit reason and I don't live in Rinkeby, I live in a country-side village.

 

[Basra]

That’s menopause age whats the point

 

[Younes Osman]

Most women know their rapists. Stranger rape is comparatively very rare.

Even if you’ve had sex on a regular basis, in that moment she didn’t want to have sex with you, and you forced her against her will. That is rape. If her own husband is the offender, it’s even more traumatic.

In some instances Men get raped by their wives

 

[Basra]

In some instances Men get raped by their wives

 

[AussieHustler]

She needs a legit reason and I don't live in Rinkeby, I live in a country-side village.

@error

She said, 'I'm tired or not in the mood for sex', then what will you do?

 

[Yukon_Niner]

@Abdurahman_somali already explained this.

Your text is very general and yes Islam stresses kind treatment between the two partners. However I have good reason to dismiss this as rape for the following reasons.

1) Even the liberal white countries did not classify this as rape until a few years ago, but sexual assault, because technically speaking a husband cannot rape his own wife. So just because white in the late 20th century and early 21th centry changed their law and recently classified it as rape, Somalis and Muslims have to follow? This is colonialism at it's best. Whenever the whites change a world wide accepted code of law, why do have Xalimos have the feeling, they have to defend this as if this is a basic human right ?

2) It is an insult for real rape victims. Since a wife has already regularly sex with her husband and is just for a specific moment against it, the consequences are not even close to the women who get raped by strangers or people they never had and neverwanted to have sex to begin with. You are making the act of rape very trivial. The wife will easily coexist with her husband after talking about this issue, whereas real rape victims are traumatised for their whole life.

Ok well now you're sexuallly assaulting your wife or just forcing her to have sex since centuries ago there were probably no laws on this shit. It's still horrible and it's a breach of trust.

Most rape victims are prey to people they know so no it isn't an insult to other rape victims so please don't try and turn this shit on anyone.