Ladies, What Would You Do?
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Xoogster. I thought you were going to post this.
Anyway, I think humans are difficult to satisfy but this is more about overlooking a possible red flag. Not just getting bored of what on the outside looks to be a catch.
That is what I assumed as well. I know many that are deceived by appearances and very much taken in by what society deems to be admirable to the point of suspending their intuition. And there are some that think having some reservations like in this scenario would make one entitled or even ungrateful. Like don't you dare look a gift horse in the mouth. But people forget you are the one that will have to deal with them beyond what they present to the world.
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LG gang we gon slide for my nigga 🤐🥷
When you put it like that they’ll obviously say no but irl they’re ignoring that gut feeling 9/10 times
Wait are u in the west right now cos then your original statement doesn't make sense
I'm surprised no women have respondedI'll be fine. Thanks for the concern. I actually posed the question to the ladies. However, I don't mind if you speculate that this is a first person narrative.All the more spicy.
My cousin was back home and left in adulthood. I was born in the west. I think that variable can alter things. Hence why I shared it.
That's what I was thinking. People love the prospect of a good looking relationship. Both highly credentialed, very attractive and in a similar income bracket. On the outside it is very much a success and people would brow beat you that you are lucky. No one knows one party is controlling or a full blown narcissist.
I could never trade in my peace of mind no matter how good the offer. I realize all that glitters is not gold. I do not want buuq. That is my chief aim.Yes. @Happy_ has responded to this scenario.
Though you make an interesting point. Maybe the male to female ratio is way off on here.
Randomly the ajnabi Balkan kid downvoted my original post. Haaye.
He is more testy than youAbdis.
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High value good looking farax from the same qabil & you still didn't cuff him 
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Abayo macaan. why don’t you ditch your clan and give us Isaaq’s a chance.?
We’re a handsome group and also the most
represented clans next to MJ’s.
Isaaq handsome post:
(Habar Awal Warsame Yunis)
(Mohamed Farah Dalmar Yusuf)
(Musa Haji Isamli Galal)
(Muse Bihi Abdi)
We’re a handsome group and also the most
represented clans next to MJ’s.
Isaaq handsome post:
(Habar Awal Warsame Yunis)
(Mohamed Farah Dalmar Yusuf)
(Musa Haji Isamli Galal)
(Muse Bihi Abdi)
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The mans that lands you will either wake up one day and realise he never had you to begin with. Or be quietly content with the fact you settled for him, thus validating his whims and desires...
High value good looking farax from the same qabil & you still didn't cuff him
I do not think it is a tribe thing. More so an interpersonal issue that is very much universal. We live in a world quite fixated on appearances that we sometimes lose sight of how important character is. And no matter what a man looks like or has if he makes you feel unsafe. That is not your husband. Keep it moving.
You brothers seem quite convinced I'm a qumayo that is impossible to please.
How did you know?
How so? So you think a man who looks good on paper can do no wrong and has no issues of his own. Please.
I do not think it is a tribe thing. More so an interpersonal issue that is very much universal. We live in a world quite fixated on appearances that we sometimes lose sight of how important character is. And no matter what a man looks like or has if he makes you feel unsafe. That is not your husband. Keep it moving.
You brothers seem quite convinced I'm a qumayo that is impossible to please.
How did you know?
How so? So you think a man who looks good on paper can do no wrong. Nor has no issues of his own. Please.
Because me and you are exactly the same. That's why I didn't get married for so long
Let's form a commitment phobe support group. Unironically, I actually have a book on my reading list on this very topic.Because me and you are exactly the same. That's why I didn't get married for so long
We will discuss it at our first meeting.Get the meds and enjoy your marriage fam. That's the solution.So, ladies, you meet a Somali man who could be from your *qabil* that is 30-something, handsome, 6'3, athletic, well-read, highly educated with a 6+ figure income and workaholic tendencies you find indicative of ambition. He appears rather interested in you. However, your intuition tells you something is off. And it hasn't failed you in the past. Would you still let him pursue you or call it quits? You have noticed some early warning signs of possessiveness.
*Spidey senses are tingling*
Let him go so the next Xalimo can find her chance in true love. Your obviously not ready yet
Let's form a commitment phobe support group. Unironically, I actually have a book on my reading list on this very topic.
..You can be our Queen B it is a disease wallahi when you try to find little faults in everyone you talk to or fear that it might get in the way of something in the future
The only way Sophisticated is getting married is to kidnap her to her aroos, do the wedding while she's tied up and take her to her bedroom and lock the room.High value good looking farax from the same qabil & you still didn't cuff him
Or else shes always going to find excuses to sabotage every relationship
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