The truth is most ex-muslims have very little knowledge of the deen (i.e. grew up in non-practicing households) or they have been exposed to a corrupted brand of Islam (i.e. suffered childhood trauma for not learning Quran etc.)
I know itās nice to hang onto your straw man but itās not true at all.
My family was very religous to the point I went to a private islamic secondary school. I even have a bloody grade A for my islamiyat qualification (which doesnāt mean a lot but still)
Iāve never been personally abused or have personal trauma, I was a teacher pet in dugsi. I was the model kid because I was good at memorisation and learning.
I left for other reasons. Most ex-muslim I know also were the same as me.
Laakin if believing that we only leave because we come from irreligious households and/or have childhood trauma, helps you sleep at night then carry on, thatās exactly why I left.

Hope you sleep well tonight walaal