'' he should have divorced that bum ages ago instead of talking to other men behind his back like a weak *****. '' well its not easy like that unfortunately. she could have gotten pregnant from the affair. best thing to do really is be a gentleman and forgive her and protect her from such types of thingsI get that he’s mostly to blame for ruining the marriage due to being an abusive pos but no way is he to blame for her cheating. She should have divorced that bum ages ago instead of talking to other men behind his back like a weak *****.