You said he was abusive(not anymore) and now youβre mentioning he might kill her...??? Take a break and reread your crazy ass comments. Youβre changing your story like a Chameleon, Shame on you nayaa.
If you care about your friend/relative/you tell her to ask for divorce. You also mentioned her daughter asked who she was talking to and got defensive, kids are smart and if what youβre telling is true and he abuses her then I donβt see how it is a stable environment for kids to grow up around. Your friend/relative/you sound like a selfish person wlh, youβre clearly justifying her behavior and backing up with crocodile tears. She needs to woman up and stand for her action. If the husband is the problem then they should seek professional help togheter thatβs if theyβre adults and have brain to think with. Otherwise she got herself a job and can happily join with her side niggis.