Interracial marriage advice

[snds]

Im sure you're living a decent lifestyle, and not sitting in your moms basement being pressed about who strangers decide to marry. Stay bothered

 

[reer]

Im sure you're living a decent lifestyle, and not sitting in your moms basement being pressed about who strangers decide to marry. Stay bothered

why are you angry? arab mother in laws are not as good as somali eedos
somalis are more reasonable in marriage than arabs

 

[snds]

why are you angry? arab mother in laws are not as good as somali eedos
somalis are more reasonable in marriage than arabs

Im not angry? Did you even see what the guy wrote that I answered. The truth can hurt sometimes.

Also, with the who's the better mother in laws part, I think it depends. But in my case, if you read the post, there's no concern about the mother in laws aka our parents.

 

[Abdalla]

Im sure you're living a decent lifestyle, and not sitting in your moms basement being pressed about who strangers decide to marry. Stay bothered

I am already making you uncomfortable, you couldn't quote me. For a feisty 22 year old, I thought you would at least do some background check on sspot. If you did that, you'd know our official view on girls marrying out. If you did a proper job, you'd know that I and my SSPOT Comrades indiscriminately shelled @Merca to the point she dumped her Morrocan fiance. @HalimaJ met the same fate and dumped her midget Yemeni fiance. She's now a mother to three Darod sons.

I respect girls who get into arranged marriage instead meeting meeting jew hating Arabs at a shisha bar in the back alleys of London.

I like how you didn't specify what kind of Arab he is. I am sure it's one of those recent refugees who survived a biological warfare.

 

[reer]

I am already making you uncomfortable, you couldn't quote me. For a feisty 22 year old, I thought you would at least do some background check on sspot. If you did that, you'd know our official view on girls marrying out. If you did a proper job, you'd know that I and my SSPOT Comrades indiscriminately shelled @Merca to the point she dumped her Morrocan fiance. @HalimaJ met the same fate and dumped her midget Yemeni fiance. She's now a mother to three Darod sons.

I respect girls who get into arranged marriage instead meeting meeting jew hating Arabs at a shisha bar in the back alleys of London.

I like how you didn't specify what kind of Arab he is. I am sure it's one of those recent refugees who survived a biological warfare.

when you marry someone their family become your in laws and your kids' family

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[snds]

I am already making you uncomfortable, you couldn't quote me. For a feisty 22 year old, I thought you would at least do some background check on sspot. If you did that, you'd know our official view on girls marrying out. If you did a proper job, you'd know that I and my SSPOT Comrades indiscriminately shelled @Merca to the point she dumped her Morrocan fiance. @HalimaJ met the same fate and dumped her midget Yemeni fiance. She's now a mother to three Darod sons.

I respect girls who get into arranged marriage instead meeting meeting jew hating Arabs at a shisha bar in the back alleys of London.

I like how you didn't specify what kind of Arab he is. I am sure it's one of those recent refugees who survived a biological warfare.

Lol it's not about being uncomfortable, you are taking the internet to another level.

No, I didnt do a complete background check on this forum. It's also the first somali forum ive ever seen/participated in. I believe in testing the waters and see how the community is for myself.

I think it's sad to be in an existence to believe that spreading hatred with sad results is a "proper job". I feel sorry for the women on this forum, that's mentally not strong enough to block out and not take opinions from online in cels as facts.

You respecting and vouching for arranged marriages already says a lot. Maybe your hooyo one day will bring you some halimo that sees past your bigotry.

I won't specify which country he's from, of the same reasons I won't specify what country I live in or which qabil i stem from. I think it's rather stupid to put people in boxes and purely judge them based out of irrelevant information. I guess thats how you move and let me tell you, you move different.

 

[Abdalla]

Lol it's not about being uncomfortable, you are taking the internet to another level.

No, I didnt do a complete background check on this forum. It's also the first somali forum ive ever seen/participated in. I believe in testing the waters and see how the community is for myself.

I think it's sad to be in an existence to believe that spreading hatred with sad results is a "proper job". I feel sorry for the women on this forum, that's mentally not strong enough to block out and not take opinions from online in cels as facts.

You respecting and vouching for arranged marriages already says a lot. Maybe your hooyo one day will bring you some halimo that sees past your bigotry.

I won't specify which country he's from, of the same reasons I won't specify what country I live in or which qabil i stem from. I think it's rather stupid to put people in boxes and purely judge them based out of irrelevant information. I guess thats how you move and let me tell you, you move different.

I can sense insecurities and shame from miles away. Is he from a gypsy Arab country?

 

[snds]

I won't specify which country he's from, of the same reasons I won't specify what country I live in or which qabil i stem from. I think it's rather stupid to put people in boxes and purely judge them based out of irrelevant information. I guess thats how you move and let me tell you, you move different.

 

[snds]

@Abdalla

 

[Jaydaan]

Black Somali woman marrying an Arab guy rarely ends well. You can say he is nice and not like others. But there is certain culture they have you can’t overcome and I doubt his family sees you as equal. But you are young and think well as long as we have love, we will be fine. Even the most progressive Arab guy treat women like sh1t. Any other Muslim group than arabs

 

[snds]

Black Somali woman marrying an Arab guy rarely ends well. You can say he is nice and not like others. But there is certain culture they have you can’t overcome and I doubt his family sees you as equal. But you are young and think well as long as we have love, we will be fine. Even the most progressive Arab guy treat women like sh1t. Any other Muslim group than arabs

I guess this is a rare instance based from your previous observations then.

 

[Jaydaan]

I guess this is a rare instance based from your previous observations then.

I’m born in Arab country and lived amongst them. I know how they view blacks and you will never be equal. From not saying his country I’m gonna guess it’s one of the smaller Arab countries like Palestine.

 

[Yoobudy]

It will only take a month of eating bariis, basto and maraq for the Arab to show you his true colors

 

[Jaydaan]

It will only take a month of eating bariis, basto and maraq for the Arab to show you his true colors

A month? You are being generous. An Arab ain’t gonna last a week before he slaps his woman

 

[Sophisticate]

This is the second time I've seen you misspelling *****, stop using words you don't know. Abaayo haduu English ku dhibaayo, afsomali aan ka hadalno. Haa isku qasbin

You scared her off.

 

[Yoobudy]

A month? You are being generous. An Arab ain’t gonna last a week before he slaps his woman

kkk I've seen more than a few brides getting slapped during their wedding. Arab men are very controlling and like to keep their women in check.

 

[Abdalla]

I’m born in Arab country and lived amongst them. I know how they view blacks and you will never be equal. From not saying his country I’m gonna guess it’s one of the smaller Arab countries like Palestine.

Or Libya and Syria. Definitely an Arab country that frequently features CNN Breaking News

You scared her off.

Reality is scary.

 

[Joliemademoiselle]

wow I new subject never talked about on somalispot.

 

[Sophisticate]

Or Libya and Syria. Definitely an Arab country that frequently features CNN Breaking News

Reality is scary.

I think this thread was an attempt to gauge Somalis views on dhegocase. Its the wrong crowd as few members if any have been in this type of union. We can only give generic advice. There was also the strategic omission of his exact origins. And calling him 'Arabic' which seemed odd as they are Arab, Arabic is a language. And they are certainly not a monolith so his country of origin or parents country of origin would have helped a bit.

 

[Abdalla]

I think this thread was an attempt to gauge Somalis views on dhegocase. Its the wrong crowd as few members if any have been in this type of union. We can only give generic advice. There was also the strategic omission of his exact origins. And calling him 'Arabic' which seemed odd as they are Arab, Arabic is a language. And they are certainly not a monolith so his country of origin or parents country of origin would have helped a bit.

How come nobody asked his country of origin until i arrived.