I'm starting the process of getting married and would like advice

[Kawsar Mustafa]

Inshaa Allah I'll start the getting married process. I have three years of college left to go. I would really appreciate it if you gave me honest sincere well thought out advice. I can always go on reddit and ask white gaalos but I value people similar to me in culture.

a) Since I'm I have three years in college should I avoid anyone not in college? I'm told I risk lack of incompatibility to the older a guy is, but if he's out of school and established in his career I don't have to worry about being screwed if financial aid doesn't come thru, and I'm more attracted to non students (but still in their twenties).

b) For married people: how do you organize finances? Joint account? Joint savings? Personal accounts?

c) What should I consider putting in the nikkah contract? Im considering putting down that can't marry a 2nd wife without my permission, and that he has to have sex with me at least twice a week, even into our 60's. What else?


d) If you are married what is something you wish you have been told the day you tied your knots?

Feel free to input anything relevant.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Inshaa Allah I'll start the getting married process. I have three years of college left to go. I would really appreciate it if you gave me honest sincere well thought out advice. I can always go on reddit and ask white gaalos but I value people similar to me in culture.

a) Since I'm I have three years in college should I avoid anyone not in college? I'm told I risk lack of incompatibility to the older a guy is, but if he's out of school and established in his career I don't have to worry about being screwed if financial aid doesn't come thru, and I'm more attracted to non students (but still in their twenties).

b) For married people: how do you organize finances? Joint account? Joint savings? Personal accounts?

c) What should I consider putting in the nikkah contract? Im considering putting down that can't marry a 2nd wife without my permission, and that he has to have sex with me at least twice a week, even into our 60's. What else?


d) If you are married what is something you wish you have been told the day you tied your knots?

Feel free to input anything relevant.

I thought you were completely serious but than I saw that part and got confused.

Now I think you’re just trolling.

I didn’t know people can demand sex in a marriage contract

 

[Emily]

So you have three years of college left and you want to get married

 

[Jake from State Farm]

So you have three years of college left and you want to get married

Facts the dick can wait. Finish your degree

 

[Vanessa]

Rule #1 never have joint account with your husband. Whatever u make is yours no need to share it with your husband.

 

[Emily]

Facts the dick can wait. Finish your degree

Or she can buy a fake dick

 

[Lil Resse]

this is obviously bait lol

 

[Horner]

Never ever marry a man who's not got a stable job or his finances in order.
@Yusra Luuza is right, you should have separate personal and savings accounts, but a joint account for your joint expenses.

 

[Kawsar Mustafa]

I thought you were completely serious but than I saw that part and got confused.

Now I think you’re just trolling.

I didn’t know people can demand sex in a marriage contract

I am serious. I don't think I have the courage to assert that it's out in the contract, but I'm serious in such that I would like it in there.

 

[Kawsar Mustafa]

this is obviously bait lol

Because...

 

[Kawsar Mustafa]

Facts the dick can wait. Finish your degree

I have Arab friends that did Katb Kitab. Also my Somali friends have boyfriends (although they don't explicitly say they're dating). Are you a practicing Muslim? It isn't so hard staying chaste and single.

 

[Wei]

@Kawsar Mustafa Go ahead and get your feet wet. Most ppl get divorced after 6-8 months. A nympho such as yourself can't go any longer without experiencing sex.

You're past two threads are an indication of sexual frustration. You might salivate over your married uncle if this goes on any longer.

 

[Adan]

Make your meher not more than $5000
Make sure you hold your wedding in your mothers house
Make sure you know how to cook baasto,bariis,malawax,sabayaad,suqaar,beer(liver) ,kilyo(Kindey's),hilib geel,hilib ari,hilib shiilan
Make sure you are good at cleaning

And then u will be mashallah ultimate wife status that's my advice!!

 

[Sheikh]

@Kawsar Mustafa Go ahead and get your feet wet. Most ppl get divorced after 6-8 months. A nympho such as yourself can't go any longer without experiencing sex.

You're past two threads are an indication of sexual frustration. You might salivate over your married uncle if this goes on any longer.

I'm speechless.

 

[Wei]

I'm speechless.

She needs a nigga in her life. ku qabo saxiib kkkk

 

[Sheikh]

She needs a nigga in her life. ku qabo saxiib kkkk

 

[Active asylum]

She needs a nigga in her life. ku qabo saxiib kkkk

females are in heat my bruddah…… ITS THE SUMMER!... We must take this opportunity and hunt them like a predator !

 

[Kawsar Mustafa]

@Kawsar Mustafa Go ahead and get your feet wet. Most ppl get divorced after 6-8 months. A nympho such as yourself can't go any longer without experiencing sex.

You're past two threads are an indication of sexual frustration. You might salivate over your married uncle if this goes on any longer.

That's disgusting. Why do you guys say such disgusting things? I'd rather be my nympho self than have such a dirty incest directed mind. Maybe y'all have been suppressed unmarried for so long your heads got messed up.

 

[Active asylum]

That's disgusting. Why do you guys say such disgusting things? I'd rather be my nympho self than have such a dirty invest directed mind.

He's projecting his insecurities onto you....its called projection psychology. Go get yourself a 6ft tall virgin male and live a stable marriage..

 

[Wei]

That's disgusting. Why do you guys say such disgusting things? I'd rather be my nympho self than have such a dirty incest directed mind. Maybe y'all have been suppressed unmarried for so long your heads got messed up.

Are you a "born again virgin".