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No, that might be more regional.The reason why so many women remarry so quickly is because in Somali culture, divorced women are not considered undesirable ...
No, that might be more regional.The reason why so many women remarry so quickly is because in Somali culture, divorced women are not considered undesirable ...
If they are mean towards you then cut them out of your life and the old man who married 20 is legend walhy I want to be like him.I resent Somali parents who get remarried especially the ones who get married multiple times and have children with different partners. I remember I lived with this lady who had 3 kids with 2 fathers and was looking for a third husband
She was a struggling nurse who’s ex wouldn’t financially help at all and she was talking about going to the Middle East to find a husband. I also saw a old man on TIktok who had married 20 WOMEN in his lifetime. Do they not think how messed up the family dynamic might be? Do they not think of how they might neglect some of their children?
I’m the only kid of my mom and dad and everyone else is just a half sibling. It feels divided into teams walahi and Im just a one man band It’s really a mindfuck growing up with 4+ siblings with the same mom and dad and also having a huge age gap + war trauma ptsd kids who fucking hate my dad and cuss him out all the time.
They treated me well when I was a kid because they like kids but once I grew older and they saw my fathers face I think that’s when the bitterness and harsh treatment really hit even though they still tried to support me and we’re kind but it was not the same as with each other.
Whenever I would argue with one of my siblings, the rest would band together to defend them as if I were an outsider arguing with their family walahi the one thing I really resent my mom for is the fact that she didn’t bother giving me a sibling so at least I’d have someone.
They all live with each other peacefully even my mentally ill brother who causes so much harm, but I barely graduated high school from how many times I was kicked out of the house It got to a point where all of them would band together and when I would argue with one (angsty teenage behavior) they would all grab me from either side and shove me out of the house (hooyo included)
Anyway I wish I could order a rule in Somalia culture that you CANT remarry with more than 2 kids!!!! and cap at only 2 MARRIAGES!!!!!!!
The reason why so many women remarry so quickly is because in Somali culture, divorced women are not considered undesirable hence they rush into another potentially terrible relationship.
I do agree with what you’re saying to an extent but that that problem is exclusively a older Gen issue. They don’t consider marriage a big deal. It’s like changing clothes for them.
I’m sure all your half siblings at least have one full sibling, the dynamic is different I’m sure. I didn’t even think of them as my half siblings until I noticed they started making the distinction with their actions when I was a teen.I think it’s your siblings that got the issue for treating you like an outsider and your mom for marrying someone that her kids don’t like and not condoning the actions of your siblings. Because that’s not normal family behavior. Some of my siblings don’t share the same father with me or the same mother but I never noticed it or were closer to others because I was full siblings with them. I can even argue that I’m closer to some of my half siblings more than my full sibling just because of personality differences. To be honest, I don’t even called them half siblings when I talk about them simply because I don’t notice it.
R u the only half sibling to them or do they as well have different father pairings?I’m sure all your half siblings at least have one full sibling, the dynamic is different I’m sure. I didn’t even think of them as my half siblings until I noticed they started making the distinction with their actions when I was a teen.
They treat me good and I’m sure they care in their own way just not the same as they do each other, and it’s painfully obvious.
Yeah I’m their only half sibling to my moms side all of them have the same dad.R u the only half sibling to them or do they as well have different father pairings?
This would make an adult feel like crap, imagine a teen dealing with this.I’m sure all your half siblings at least have one full sibling, the dynamic is different I’m sure. I didn’t even think of them as my half siblings until I noticed they started making the distinction with their actions when I was a teen.
They treat me good and I’m sure they care in their own way just not the same as they do each other, and it’s painfully obvious.