What!!!It all began with little compliments, then he did something inappropriate. When I refused to meet him for tea he started making me work extra hours. He would also fire all the good looking guys who talked to me at work out of jealousy.








What!!!It all began with little compliments, then he did something inappropriate. When I refused to meet him for tea he started making me work extra hours. He would also fire all the good looking guys who talked to me at work out of jealousy.
Also what was the inappropriate thing that he didIt all began with little compliments, then he did something inappropriate. When I refused to meet him for tea he started making me work extra hours. He would also fire all the good looking guys who talked to me at work out of jealousy.
Also what was the inappropriate thing that he did![]()
Also what was the inappropriate thing that he did![]()
Okay at least explain the firing part. You said that he fired any man who spoke to you. How the hell would that work.I can't say it on here.
It all began with little compliments, then he did something inappropriate. When I refused to meet him for tea he started making me work extra hours. He would also fire all the good looking guys who talked to me at work out of jealousy.
Okay at least explain the firing part. You said that he fired any man who spoke to you. How the hell would that work
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Bro, PERV ALERT!! PERV ALERT!!So, I'm a bit confused and would like someone to help clear this up. My manager (woman, mid-30s) has been VERY touchy-feely lately. Escalated just before Christmas, here's a list of her shenanigans with me:
- Whenever she comes over to talk to me, she always touches me. Either places her hand on my lower back or on my arm, and it's always for a second too long.
- If I show her something on my computer screen, she'll come super close to me to check it. Our faces are like mm from touching.
-Always asking about my personal life. I once told her about a slip up I made during a date and she's constantly reminding me of it. Keeps on calling me a player etc.
- Compared me to her bf physically many, many times.
- Showed me a picture of her when she was around my age and asked me if I would date her (I'm not kidding....this is my manager!)
-Here's the big one. We were working together, sitting side by side. I point to a mistake I found on my laptop, she leans in to look over and rest her HAND ON MY THIGH the whole time she was looking (like 30seconds).
Even my coworker has caught on a bit. He asked me why she treats us different. Things like the way she talks to us and the work allocation (she always gives me work I enjoy, most of the time). Lastly, every time we go to lunch together, she pays (maybe once a week).
So guys, help me out here. Am I being groomed? Or is she just particularly friendly with me?
And about the touching, that's something I can't stand (from anyone). But I'm afraid she'll make my work life hell if I tell her to cut it out.
I seriously agree with this statement report her for sexual harassment cause if you reject her advances she may turn the tables on you @GenosTheres only one thing to do...
Report her for sexual assault
She'll report me to HRtell her you have a small dick.
HR department is useless and it would be a hassle getting them involved. Honestly, I think this would be as bad as it gets. I don't think there's anyway for her to escalate this and I'm planning on leaving in the next 6months. Plus it's not all that bad, she's fairly attractive. Could've have been much worse (like my previous manager lol)
What's I'm worried about are my coworkers starting to resent me, I kind of sense it building up. She treats me different to them. I get to work on what I like, they don't and usually do the boring, tedious work. I've never stayed late, she's told some of them they have to in the past. And she's pretty dismissive of a few of them. (I once asked her a question which she answered fully. Coworker ask a very similar question and she says it's very basic and to search the internet)