In my opinion, if you want to date a fellow Somali gaal, you gotta utilise the internet. There’s many ex Muslim somali communities. You gotta start getting to know eachother because you’re both gaal. Doing that makes your dating pool quite small tho since you have to find somali gaal (which is already hard) AND then one who fulfils everything else you’d usually look for in a guy/girl. Don’t be surprised if you’re really dacad on being a Somali gaal, and end up on doing long distance. I think it would be stupid to limit your dating pool to only other Somali gaals. You can have a preference for fellow Somalis (I do) but you’re wayy too limited.
This is very true, I can’t stand a lot of Somali gaal guys, it’s too hard for them to divorce themselves from negative parts islamic/Somali cultures. I trust most Somali gaal girls/lgbt guys and obvs some men are good, like
@AussieHustler however alot enjoy the privilege from Islam. Those ones probably return back to islam anyway
I’d most the decent ex Muslim somali guys I know don’t rly care much for somalinimo, which isn’t a bad thing or a good thing lol. I guess since I like my somalinimo, and would raise any kids I have very Somali, I’d probably have to find a Somali man, who’s still into his culture but doesn’t partake in the sexist/harmful parts, it’s gonna be very hard lol wish me luck sis,