How would you feel if your father became polygamous?

[GodKnowsBest]

Ok fair enough. What if your father could be involved in your family and his new family in every way needed? Would you still cut ties with him?

I am surprised that you would cut ties with your father for any reason that doesn't involve rape or murder. he's your father ffs.

So? My father said he'd disown me if I'm an adult and not wearing a hijab. If he can disown me that easily I will disown him.

 

[Vision]

So? My father said he'd disown me if I'm an adult and not wearing a hijab. If he can disown me that easily I will disown him.

Not too long ago he was changing your diapers and provided all you needed (unless he was a deadbeat crackhead) but now its i dont gotta take shit from you

 

[Aaegal]

Not too long ago he was changing your diapers and provided all you needed (unless he was a deadbeat crackhead) but now its i dont gotta take shit from you

Look, no one asked to be brought into this world. Parents don't get brownie points for taking care of their children. They have to... It's not something you can hold over people.

 

[dhegdheer]

Ok fair enough. What if your father could be involved in your family and his new family in every way needed? Would you still cut ties with him?

We all move into one big house like a happy family? Haha sounds like a recipe for ill breed resentment and lots of anger.

No i wouldn't cut him off for that but i would still lose respect for him

I am surprised that you would cut ties with your father for any reason that doesn't involve rape or murder. he's your father ffs.

Please you probably wouldn't even blink if he had cut me off for being atheist dont u lot like to argue it's our own fault for telling them LOL

I'm not taking this lightly either, he'd literally be destroying our family

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Not too long ago he was changing your diapers and provided all you needed (unless he was a deadbeat crackhead) but now its i dont gotta take shit from you

My mom did most of the diaper changing. He was a good dad growing up so I will owe him with my life but that doesn't mean I have to take his shit.

 

[Ferrari]

We all love into one big house like a happy family? Haha sounds like a recipe for ill breed resentment and lots of anger.

No i wouldn't cut him off for that but i would still lose respect for him



Please you probably wouldn't even blink if he had cut me off for being atheist dont u lot like to argue it's our own fault for telling them LOL

I'm not taking this lightly either, he'd literally be destroying our family

We have different mindsets and clearly, we were raised differently and in different environments.

 

[dhegdheer]

We have different mindsets and clearly, we were raised differently and in different environments.

Meh we most likely have a similar upbringing and environment sxb conservative like the rest of em

Ur right about the different mindsets tho

 

[John Michael]

Parents who cut off their children and abandon their responsibilities= bad but what ya gonna do about it?

Children being upset with their father treating their family bad = you're going to the deepest depths of hell





Somalis ALWAYS twisting religion for the benefit of good for nothings. And we wonder why our country is shit. Wehave an entire society that accepts the norm of broken families (even if they aren't technically divorce it's still broken) nothing good can come of it.

 

[Diomande]

a relative of mine remarried recently after 30 years of marriage and bunch of grown kids.

his family pretty much cut him out of their lives, none of his kids wants to even talk to him.

I love my father but I would honestly do the same if he ever remarries.

That's being emotional especially if they're men. My father has another family and I get along fine with him.

 

[arawelo 2.0]

That's being emotional especially if they're men. My father has another family and I get along fine with him.

he did it behind their backs without so much as a courtesy call. their mother is completely heartbroken. their once seemingly perfect family is now a total shitshow. I think it's completely justified.

 

[Arman]

Mashallah one of the only threads on this forum that has 8 pages and has managed to stay on topic


Clearly, I am the thread master

 

[Diomande]

She's younger than me >.>

Is she fit?

 

[Jjero]

My father is a grown man, I shouldn't question him as he has provided me house and food for 16 years
Its not my problem until he wants to bring the womens children into our house