How would you feel if your father became polygamous?

[Inactive]

How about those guys who divorce their oldest wives everytime they find a new wife because they've hit the 4 maximum? They're the worst

 

[Sam]

I would cut ties with him

 

[Aaegal]

if she is in Somalia, it's not her fault. she is a twenty-year-old with no way out of that shithole of a country. do you think marrying some gross old man is some sort of a price? unless your dad is rich, it's not like she'll be getting more than few hundred bucks a month. imagine being with a 63-year-old and sacrificing your dignity for that.

if you are gonna blame anybody, blame your dad.

She lives in Sweden... My dad and his side of the family are rich, and she knows it.

Have some respect for your father. You wouldn't be alive had it not be for him.

No thanks. He's lost my respect. He's humiliated my mother too often. Every single one of his brothers and even his own mother is against the marriage. He's still going through with it.

 

[Coulombs law]

The ignorant bliss of some of these older somali men as well.
You marry a 20 year old and visit once a year for a few weeks or a month if your lucky - what do you think she's up to the rest of the year ?

These people don't understand how promiscuous the Somali youth are back home, more so than their diasporan counterparts i would say...

 

[arawelo 2.0]

She lives in Sweden... My dad and his side of the family are rich, and she knows it.

f*ck that gold digging then

 

[Aaegal]

f*ck that gold digging then

She's younger than me >.>

 

[Bahal]

My dad is in the process of marrying a third women. I fucking hate his guts for it. He's 63 and wants a young wife and more children... The thing that pisses me off the most is that this he's marrying is 20 and is after his money. Only reason I'm nice to him is so when he keels over I get a good chunk of the inheritance, and I'll make sure this gets little to none.

Damn this is the worst.

Who the f*ck is gonna take care of those poor kids who'll have a dad well into his 70s and 80s before theyre high school age?

 

[arawelo 2.0]

She's younger than me >.>

convince your mother to divorce him and take him for all he got.

how does the other wife feel about this?

 

[Aaegal]

Damn this is the worst.

Who the f*ck is gonna take care of those poor kids who'll have a dad well into his 70s and 80s before theyre high school age?

That's what I told him. Everyone in my family is mad at him. He's almost the age his father died at... He already has 10 kids, it's beyond me why he wants more. I guess we're all disappointments to him.

 

[Aaegal]

convince your mother to divorce him and take him for all he got.

how does the other wife feel about this?

I've been asking her to divorce him for the past 12 years. She basically tells me to f*ck off. She could've remarried a much better man. I wish I were born to one of his brothers. They have more money than him, and are married to one women each.

 

[Bahal]

That's what I told him. Everyone in my family is mad at him. He's almost the age his father died at... He already has 10 kids, it's beyond me why he wants more. I guess we're all disappointments to him.

It's the strange Somali reproductive strategy that makes no sense in the West

 

[arawelo 2.0]

Damn this is the worst.

Who the f*ck is gonna take care of those poor kids who'll have a dad well into his 70s and 80s before theyre high school age?

walaahay that is what I hate the most about this. they'll be fathering kids in their 70's and these children will barely have a father. he'll either be dead before they even reach a certain age or he'll be an old barely sane shell of a father. these men have no common sense. why wait for so long if you're planning to get remarried.

 

[random12345]

She's younger than me >.>

wow....

 

[Don]

My mom said she does not mind if my father marries another woman from Somalia so i guess i wouldn't mind as well, but it would piss me off if me and my siblings were to fund her wedding and expenses.

But i know my dad won't remarry due to him being interested in nothing besides expanding his business and improving Somalia,
He's like those Gigantic strict Fathers whom no one can question at all, I was beat a lot when i was in my pre-teens and as a child

My father would never invest in somalia

My mom said she does not mind if my father marries another woman from Somalia so i guess i wouldn't mind as well, but it would piss me off if me and my siblings were to fund her wedding and expenses.

But i know my dad won't remarry due to him being interested in nothing besides expanding his business and improving Somalia,
He's like those Gigantic strict Fathers whom no one can question at all, I was beat a lot when i was in my pre-teens and as a child

Same my father only thinks about business it's like a drug for him 24/7 phone calls in the middle of the night but he would never invest in somalia

 

[Aaegal]

On the topic of old men having children. Did you know that the grandchildren of the 10th president of the united states are alive?

 

[Reign]

I would stay out of it. Not my business, it's between them.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

These people don't understand how promiscuous the Somali youth are back home, more so than their diasporan counterparts i would say...

Fr?!?! I could believe that.

 

[Amira]

I wouldn't accept it. He'd no longer be my Abo. He'd be dead to me.

 

[Coulombs law]

Fr?!?! I could believe that.

Yeah and if they find out that you are from the diaspora.. watch out

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Yeah and if they find out that you are from the diaspora.. watch out

Watch out for what???? I'm not diaspora my parents are!! I am purebred American. Will they plot against me?