How to deal with breakups

[GodKnowsBest]

I knew you were gonna say that. You remind me of my HY brother in law you're just more maskeen.

Unfortunately you are right. Men are like toddlers they lose interest quickly. That's why ladies should always marry a maskeen.

Well... The advice from the older people is telling me I should go back to him. All guys lose interest after a while but not all guys treat the women in their life well... God sent him to me for a reason!

I should apologize before all the damage is settled in. The guy will be scarred in future relationships if I Don't fix what I did last night!

 

[Bohol]

I knew you were gonna say that. You remind me of my HY brother in law you're just more maskeen.

Unfortunately you are right. Men are like toddlers they lose interest quickly. That's why ladies should always marry a maskeen.

I don't know where you get this idea that I am maskeen guy it must be ramadan talking.

 

[Bohol]

Yes, I had to explain so much concepts of our relationship to him. After the first time we argued he felt inadequate I had to explain to him arguments are natural in relationships. Thing is I'm a virgin, I want to marry a virgin. I kinda feel bad now. I will wait a week maybe a month. If I suddenly get a message from God to go back to him I will but right now we need a break. I cussed at him last night, yelled at him, publicly embarrassed both of us. Ugh, I need time to think.

You need a real man that can teach you things. :siilaanyosmile:

 

[Gambar]

I don't know where you get this idea that I am maskeen guy it must be ramadan talking.

Compared to other isaaq members you're maskeen, I've never seen you insult people for no reason.

 

[The Cushitic One]

Your mom can be a source of strength for you in your decisions. When you choose a guy, keep her in mind. I wish you good luck sis. You are a good girl. Your mom raised you well.

Yes wallahi you give the best advice sweets.

I always listen to my mums advice, their very wise masha'Allah.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Yes wallahi you give the best advice sweets.

I always listen to my mums advice, heir very wise masha'Allah.

Are you guys actually in a relationship? Girl, you should figure out his age first. Too many adeers here with bidaars.

 

[Zumar]

Your mom can be a source of strength for you in your decisions. When you choose a guy, keep her in mind. I wish you good luck sis. You are a good girl. Your mom raised you well.

The first guy who ever wants to get serious again can meet my mom first, and if he doesnt want to he can go haha

And im glad to hear that thankyou

 

[Dino]

Wait this is how White girls experience relationships? Aren't Somali girls the same? I Don't do the sucky sucky. I'm a virgin. Ask one of the other girls.

Nah somali girls have sharaf and dignity. The s on this thread are not somali in my eyes. They are cadaaan lite no more no less.

 

[Bohol]

Compared to other isaaq members you're maskeen, I've never seen you insult people for no reason.

It is called being mature. I can be real nasty though if provoked like a rattlesnake (I only bite when provoked). :siilaanyosmile:

 

[The Cushitic One]

Compared to other isaaq members you're maskeen, I've never seen you insult people for no reason.

His not a miiskeeen don't Be fooled ....

 

[Dino]

Yes wallahi you give the best advice sweets.

I always listen to my mums advice, their very wise masha'Allah.

where is your dad in all this?

 

[InfoMatic]

ItsHanna, Raalli ahoow sis, in case I was harsh or rude. I care about your well being as a Somali sister who shared her woes with us. My apologies sis.

I wish the best for you.

 

[Gambar]

His not a miiskeeen don't Be fooled ....

He's doing a good job of hiding it.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

where is your dad in all this?

Exactly! My abbo macaan gives me all the advice in the world when it comes to dealing with professors, classes, how to deal with gay kids at school who approach me because I wear a hijab. The only thing I can't talk to him about is dating!

 

[InfoMatic]

where is your dad in all this?

Just because she mentioned her mom does not mean her dad is not in the picture though. Besides, it is easier for girls sometimes to talk to their mom for advise.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

Just because she mentioned her mom does not mean her dad is not in the picture though. Besides, it is easier for girls sometimes to talk to their mom for advise.

Ha..ha...ha. Naw, I talk to my dad with everything. My mom only gives me advice in my appearance. I can't ask her for relationship advice since she got divorced and she was mean to my dad. I fear I will be mean to my husband which is why I regret how I treated this cadaan guy. God could have sent me my husband and I could've been pushing him away.

 

[Dino]

I knew you were gonna say that. You remind me of my HY brother in law you're just more maskeen.

Unfortunately you are right. Men are like toddlers they lose interest quickly. That's why ladies should always marry a maskeen.

not really. marrying a maskeen has it's own set of problems.

the problem happens whehn girls get with guys with totally different ideals and values in life. So while the initial hot and lust combo might spark the relationship, a guy will not stay with a girl if she is not on his level. No matter how much you do for him.

If the woman is worth it, the man will stay with her for eternity. But for that to happen you need to meet someone who thinks and sees the world like you. Moreover you should have something other girls do not have

 

[GodKnowsBest]

ItsHanna, Raalli ahoow sis, in case I was harsh or rude. I care about your well being as a Somali sister who shared her woes with us. My apologies sis.

I wish the best for you.

Only 15 more days and we will see your true side come out.

 

[Gambar]

Your mom can be a source of strength for you in your decisions. When you choose a guy, keep her in mind. I wish you good luck sis. You are a good girl. Your mom raised you well.

True, although my mom is much meaner than my dad. For some reason my mom is harsh but wise my dad is extremely maskeen except for certain things. She's also strong in her convictions she's harsh because she wants the best. My father would let me do whatever, my mother wouldn't allow much. That's probably why I married a maskeen like she did.

 

[Dino]

Exactly! My abbo macaan gives me all the advice in the world when it comes to dealing with professors, classes, how to deal with gay kids at school who approach me because I wear a hijab. The only thing I can't talk to him about is dating!

i pity your father for having a daughter like you. Every father's worst nightmare