How to deal with breakups

[GodKnowsBest]

Awoowe that is the attitude that breeds many single mothers and fatherless children in the Somali community.

He was a good man. I won't lie. I could have made it work if I worshipped him instead of him worshipping me but in the dating phase the man has to put in all the effort.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

You been watching too many movies. Who worships women? this is real life not a movie.

He worshipped me the first two months. All he had to do was keep everything the same. Men have all the excuses in the book and women have memorized all of them.

 

[Zumar]

You been watching too many movies. Who worships women? this is real life not a movie.

You worship men then?

 

[Bohol]

He worshipped me the first two months. All he had to do was keep everything the same. Men have all the excuses in the book and women have memorized all of them.

Men in general get bored easily and lose interest if the woman isn't able to keep their attention. It is nothing personal.

 

[Bohol]

You worship men then?

I worship only Allah.

 

[Zumar]

The guy i was with was actually good and caring, he worshipped me and was a muslim
But he wasnt serious enough
Had not 1 degree or a stable life, do you think that is reasonable ?

I worship only Allah.

I agree with you, but a wife and family is important too to love and care for

 

[Bohol]

The guy i was with was actually good and caring, he worshipped me and was a muslim
But he wasnt serious enough
Had not 1 degree or a stable life, do you think that is reasonable ?




I agree with you, but a wife and family is important too to love and care for

Nothing wrong with caring that is a given, every father/husband should care for his family. However worshipping is related to religion, it is not something to throw around.

 

[Zumar]

Nothing wrong with caring that is a given, every father/husband should care for his family. However worshiping is related to religion, it is not something to throw around.

I totally understand you

 

[Bohol]

I totally understand you

 

[Zumar]

 

[InfoMatic]

All I see are girls with low self esteem who got what they deserve. When a woman sucks a guy in his sleep/at a drop of a hat, it is normal that he gets tired of the leech and dumps her for a more sensible woman.

No man respects a woman who suffers from low self esteem. You fools need to shape up and respect yourselves.

 

[Zumar]

All I see are girls with low self esteem who got what they deserve. When a woman sucks a guy in his sleep, it is normal that he gets tired of the leech and dumps her for a more sensible woman.

No man respects a woman who suffers from low self esteem. You fools need to shape up and respect yourselves.

100% true

 

[--Ajakis Lax Max--]

I don't fast and my abbo macaan is a single father who does all the cooking alhamdulliyahweh
@HILIB-CUNE

your father had a daughter so she chats about worshiping boys while he cooks. i know yall not into gender roles but what about waalid roles

 

[Hilaac]

Awoowe that is the attitude that breeds many single mothers and fatherless children in the Somali community.

Men in general get bored easily and lose interest if the woman isn't able to keep their attention. It is nothing personal.

So do we

On a serious note, a man can only expect to be dished out the same level of respect/ love he provides. It is nothing personal here either. My self-interest comes first

 

[Zumar]

So do we

On a serious note, a man can only expect to be dished out the same level of respect/ love he provides. It is nothing personal here either. My self-interest comes first

Maybe this is the reason why somali girls are seeing guys from other nationalities above somali guys

 

[Bohol]

So do we

On a serious note, a man can only expect to be dished out the same level of respect/ love he provides. It is nothing personal here either. My self-interest comes first

I don't think anyone wants to be in one-sided relationship. Respect goes both ways I agree.

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

Since when is "worshipping" part of dating?

 

[InfoMatic]

Maybe this is the reason why somali girls are seeing guys from other nationalities above somali guys

PS: Hilaac has two headlights on her chest with dark spots in the center. If you get my drift. You assumed her to be male.

 

[Zumar]

PS: Hilaac has two headlights on her chest with dark spots in the center. If you get my drift. You assumed her to be male.

Yeah i got you haha but its still kind of relevant tho

 

[Hilaac]

Maybe this is the reason why somali girls are seeing guys from other nationalities above somali guys

There are some decent Somali guys out there sis. But yeah, logically there's no reason to limit yourself if everything you want is elsewhere

As long as his muslim