tbh most of them don't, u just don't see what happens behind closed doors, alot of them see their dad like 1 time a week and have no relationship with him or really know him, im not saying its bad but u really don't have much time to spend with ur kids
I'm tryna specialise in a STEM field but also seeking knowledge at the same time
You’re right. I don’t. I have an idealized version in my head. Those men have wives that are busy at that time most likely. Can you introduce yourself to these fathers and strike up a convo about something to figure out how they are able to do that..You never know if they are excelling in their fields either without talking to them.
It can be done. Many people have done it. Just gotta connect with them be it irl or on socials. Seek advise from those who have been where you’re trying to go. And always, seek aid in Allah. May Allah grant you an enduring patience.
Same I will be working and going uni and its still not as intensive as what I have already done.
true I should
If I am working when I am not studying when will I have time for my wife?
Honestly think there marriages will not be a normal marriage that people are expecting.
Are you working full time or part time and it's simple get a wife who is understanding and you can take her out on multiple honeymoons during your holidays or marry another student who is in the same situation as you. You guys can get it on when your both free.
Yh thats not for me.
Ur not really married then are u, ur like boyfrienda and girlfriend who meet every 6 months
At least it’s halal tho
There's literally no point in it, ur like friends with benefits just halal, there is no marriage between u
Not really you can grow in marriage. Example https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-digital-sisterhood/id1562999893?i=1000525198059
Does this account to when u have kids aswell?
What’s a marriage supposed to be then in your opinion
U think marriage is just about sex?
That’s not an answer. But it’s not just a fwb situation, you’re grinding with your wife and and going through the challenges of studying etc. Isn’t that what marriage is about? What’s your idea of a marriage
Actually living together
You’d eventually live together tho. You’d both need to be patient ofc but as you already know marriages demand patience
