How long can you stay celibate before you implode

[Basra]

Divorcing is one of of the worst things you can do. It should only be done in extreme cases. There is everything wrong with divorce even if the deen doesn't say so.

Both Islam and Catholics look down on Divorce. It should be a last resort. But life happens. I sincerely believe, couples need to clean their Sin Bank.

I call it is Sin bank because every sin we do every day goes to our spiritual Sin bank. You need to be close to Sin Bankruptcy. Periodt.


Until you cleans yourselves with Sins u will never be happy

 

[Taij4an]

Agreed that it should never be done unless all else has failed but sometimes divorce is the only option especially in cases of abuse, and infidelity.

Yes but in the original post u were replying to your acting as if divorce is an option when ur getting married just in case it doesn't work out.
Divorce should never be in a persons mind as they are getting married, nor should they see it as an escape if they get married young and make the wrong decision

 

[Omar del Sur]

you can be celibate your whole life. Sheikh Ibn Taymiyyah never married. but saying you are too busy to be married.... it's half of the dīn. don't let that be what stops you, if you have to you make time

 

[Taij4an]

you can be celibate your whole life. Sheikh Ibn Taymiyyah never married. but saying you are too busy to be married.... it's half of the dīn. don't let that be what stops you, if you have to you make time

I dont have time tho, work and seeking knowledge take up too much time

 

[Omar del Sur]

I dont have time tho, work and seeking knowledge take up too much time

I'm sure a lot of scholars have practiced polygamy and you talk like you can't handle one wife. You have to work. You can cut from the time you spend posting on somalispot and if you have to from time seeking knowledge. Or be celibate forever, it's your life.

 

[Taij4an]

I'm sure a lot of scholars have practiced polygamy

They usually stop seeking knowledge when they get married

 

[Taij4an]

if you have to from time seeking knowledge.

thats gonna be the only option

 

[Omar del Sur]

They usually stop seeking knowledge when they get married

not true.

 

[Taij4an]

not true.

then here is my worry I will basically have to be an absent husband/father because am so busy all the time it will be difficult for my wife

 

[Basra]

U will never implode for not having sex. Men or Women. Sex is only useful for making babies. Not for po.r.n gymnastic

 

[zackattack]

How long can one stay celibate before he becomes sexually repressed or implodes and does some crazy stuff.
I need to plan my life out, idk how long I can do this for before it becomes unhealthy I've seen what happens to men who get no p*ssy it doesn't look good

I am 60 years old and have never seen any seall in my life

I'm part of a Sufi order that keeps celibate until death .

It's not so bad no kids so more money I travel a lot I dress nicely I own a old gothic house in the countryside of ontario .

SEX IS NOT EVERYTHING

IT ALSO IS EVERYTHING

 

[zackattack]

How long can one stay celibate before he becomes sexually repressed or implodes and does some crazy stuff.
I need to plan my life out, idk how long I can do this for before it becomes unhealthy I've seen what happens to men who get no p*ssy it doesn't look good

THANK YOU FOR PROVING your a raging virgin

 

[Cajiib]

Honestly think there marriages will not be a normal marriage that people are expecting.

Don’t worry about what’s seen as normal. All that matters is what you and your (potential) wife agree on and how you make it work for both of you.

 

[Taij4an]

THANK YOU FOR PROVING your a raging virgin

who sed im a virgin?

 

[Qeelbax]

@Qeelbax I think you and @Taij4an would make a cute couple ngl. Give him a chance he is a nice guy.

He doesn’t understand traveling

 

[Taij4an]

He doesn’t understand traveling

Out of everything bad u could say about me u choose travelling

 

[Odious Delirium]

Out of everything bad u could say about me u choose travelling

She's still angry about that kpop stans doing hijrah to Korea thread.

 

[Peache]

You need basic acomidations renting is fine you don't need to buy a house and aslong as you have a stable income that can pay for your needs and her needs there is not really much else you need to get married. Everything else is a luxury and excess you can get that during you marriage.

Facts, facts, and facts ….

 

[Peache]

n

I understand but thats disgusting weird and xaram and also I will never stoop that low.

I wish and make you dua all the best sir in your endeavour. We’ve had disagreements but seeing you express this , I wish you luck in this Wallahi.