Really? That's the problem. In the west, they should know how to cook. It's mandatory.
It’s genetic.
The women you met must have been Landheeres.
Somali women don’t cook food for their man; another women does.
Really? That's the problem. In the west, they should know how to cook. It's mandatory.
That's good, at least you can make Somali food. These other girls can't.
Somali guys now know how to cook, but I would never tell that to a xalimo, she would take advantage of me.
It pisses me off that xalimos from the diaspora (Canada, US, Reer Europe) can't cook Somali food
They can't even make something simple as Canjeero/Canjeelo or Malawax
The xalimos I've dated only 1/4 of them could cook
When you confront them about it they get mad and say "Cook it yourself if you want bajiye or sambuusa "
"Go to (insert Somali restaurant) if you want hilib ari iyo baris "
"Ewww Shaah is disgusting "
What the f*ck is going on? It should be a basic requirement for xalimos from the diaspora to know how to make Somali food
I'm seriously considering marrying some xalimo from my tuulo, I love my xalimos from the West but damn, I might have to reconsider
Lol i think they are not interested i have always stood beside my father when he cooked because i liked it, so a few months ago i tried it and he liked my sambuus and know he asks me to make sambuus every time cuz i make em the best i shouldn't have done that
Thats true wallahi. A majority of them can't even cook malawax. I'll give them a pass for canjeero because its more difficult, but they have the gall to have certain expectations for us Somali men.
They get mad when we tell them you should know how to make Somali food, saying some feminist bullshit like "imma independent boss b*tch, not a housewife". Who said anything about being a housewife? You should know how to cook girl.
Thats good you know how to cook
Your father raised you, you must cook for him all the time abayo
Than learn to make it yourself.
This isn't the 1950's woman work
And bring home an income just
like Men do
Well he mostly cooks because I have school and i come home late, after school or a long day i always see this delicious food waiting for me to eat i am blessed
Haha it seems like the diaspora Xalimos have no intention of cooking or partaking in the traditional housewife role. It's fascinating really. I'm sure you've seen these tweets on twitter already but here's some examples:
It's quite interesting to see the differences between the Xalimos here compared to the ones back home. And I'm starting to understand why Faraxs are going back home to marry a women that hasn't been tainted by Dajjal's feminism movement.
Typical xalimo response "This isn't the 1950s, women aren't slaves". How come xalimos have expectations for us geeljires to herd the camels, but we can't for them because they get all feminazi mad?
Xalimos are hypocrites.
Look it is not that we are all hypocrites i expect that i bring an income do the house work and cook but the same rules apply for my husband.
my motto is we do it together
Thats the problem with them. They think cooking for their husband is slavery. They are indeed tainted by the shaytans ideology called "Feminism".
They're the biggest hypocrites sxb. They want Somali men to be a certain way, but when we demand them to cook food, they get all mad. I don't blame Somali men for going back home to find them a wife because the ones here ain't shit. They can't even cook malawax. A damn pancake. Even Becky can cook that.
Xalimos werent created to cook for your ungrateful asses. If you want Somali food, ask your mom to cook for you or better yet cook it your damn self.
Such a pressing issue.
Typical lazy Faraax.Typical xalimo response. Somali girls have certain expectations for Somali men, but we can't have expectations for you women like cooking?
I'm not asking you xalimos to do my laundry, I'm just saying you girls should learn how to cook and be happy to cook for your husbands. I want sabaayad iyo suqaar and I expect the xalimo I'm with, to put it on my plate.
You will be a good wife because your not like the majority of Somali girls who think cooking is slavery.
I agree with you.
It’s just food and Somali food isn’t that special.Its a big issue. They want a Somali man to bring in the money, well, I want my wife to cook for me when I'm coming home from work. A majority of them can't cook food, even something simple like malawax.
The sabaayaad iyo suqaar ain't gonna make itself....