HISTORIC RULING: 14yr Girl wins case against forced marriage in Somaliland

[HalimaJ]

Refers to the Sexual Offences Act that was passed and the age differences between the two as well as her unwillingness to wed

That is why he picked the side of the girl to not wed the guy

We were getting dissed by Somalia folks when this act was in parliament as it also includes a minimum age of marriage and conditions to giving protections to women to pursue their lives rather be pressured into marriage.

And people were spreading propaganda this law was going to make our people more promiscuous and fluid

A lot of people are backwards walal, especially in situations in which women are offered protection.

You have people against parliament banning fircooni circumcision despite that being not only haraam but completely harmful towards women.

Unfortunately people will always champion certain dhaqans above the physical and mental health of women.

Many men will not sympathise because it doesn't harm them and they can't be bothered to relate.

That is why I feel strongly because the reality is that only us Somali women can make a real change.

 

[Puffin Stuff]

A lot of people are backwards walal, especially in situations in which women are offered protection.

You have people against parliament banning fircooni circumcision despite that being not only haraam but completely harmful towards women.

Unfortunately people will always champion certain dhaqans above the physical and mental health of women.

Many men will not sympathise because it doesn't harm them and they can't be bothered to relate.

That is why I feel strongly because the reality is that only us Somali women can make a real change.

Backwards isn’t a bad thing there’s a reason cultural and heritage must be protected I prefer the term western or liberal

 

[HalimaJ]

Backwards isn’t a bad thing there’s a reason cultural and heritage must be protected I prefer the term western or liberal

At the expense of women?

You wouldn't be saying that if certain practises effected men negatively.

So treating women with respect and dignity= liberal.

 

[Suldaanka]

Would you marry of your 14year old daughter to a man in his mid 40s?

Why not

 

[HalimaJ]

Why not

Would you marry a woman in her 40s or a woman you were not attracted to?

 

[Puffin Stuff]

At the expense of women?

You wouldn't be saying that if certain practises effected men negatively.

Ofc not that’s a interesting point you make the sad truth is most women in Somaliland don’t have a intrest in law and you can’t force them to? So what do you suggest the government does your here pointing out all the problems but aren’t giving answers and the few you’ve given are vague

 

[Suldaanka]

I’m older than you. Show me some respect.

Age has nothing to do with it. If act like a child you will be addressed like a child.

 

[East side]

Why not

Looool ok atleast you are honest. We just see things differently.

 

[Suldaanka]

Would you marry a woman in her 40s or a woman you were not attracted to?

Why is a 40yr old not attractive?
I would marry an older women if we clicked. Im a believer in calaf. There are benefits to marrying someone older. Nabi Maxamed married Khadija when he was 25 and She was 40

 

[halwa]

Age has nothing to do with it. If act like a child you will be addressed like a child.

Because you’re acting like a child, you barbaric Roman savage.

Burcadbadeed foolasha xun. wajigaa gubay

 

[Puffin Stuff]

We’ve all got opinions and agendas I’m not going to sugar coat things in a man with bollocks or balls whatever you call them like most warm blooded men I’m going to prefer fixing Male orientated problems to female problems

 

[Suldaanka]

Because you’re acting like a child, you barbaric Roman savage.

Burcadbadeed foolasha xun. wajigaa gubay

Resort to name calling. Im a follower of islam and somali culture. So if that is barbaric so be it. Just reminds me western societies call islam barbaric

 

[HalimaJ]

Why is a 40yr old not attractive?
I would marry an older women if we clicked. Im a believer in calaf. There are benefits to marrying someone older. Nabi Maxamed married Khadija when he was 25 and She was 40

Hence why I used to the word 'or' therefore I did not imply that women in their 40s cannot be attractive.

But would you marry a woman you were neither attracted to or clicked with?

 

[Suldaanka]

Looool ok atleast you are honest. We just see things differently.

And no one is forcing you to marry 10yr old. Lakiin dont talk shit or try to sugarcoat diinta to appease kaafirs. They will never accpet you ever.

 

[Puffin Stuff]

I may not agree with his specific goal but he makes a good point western culture doesn’t see Somali culture as a good thing

 

[Suldaanka]

Hence why I used to the word 'or' therefore I did not imply that women in their 40s cannot be attractive.

But would you marry a woman you were neither attracted to or clicked with?

Why not. I would marry for kids. I would marry to fulfil my needs. I would marry to help raise my sibilings. I would marry out of naxariis and danwadag

 

[halwa]

Resort to name calling. Im a follower of islam and somali culture. So if that is barbaric so be it. Just reminds me western societies call islam barbaric

You’re not following the religion. You’re an extremist who uses the religion when he sees fit. You nitpick things from the religion. You’re not above anyone.

I will blow your brains out from your arse. Dabada danyeerka aa u eegtahay.

 

[East side]

And no one is forcing you to marry 10yr old. Lakiin dont talk shit or try to sugarcoat diinta to appease kaafirs. They will never accpet you ever.

Im not sugarcoating anything. I would never marry of my 14 year old to a man in his 40s. I would never force my daughter to marry someone she didnt want to. You disagree with this ruling it seems. Tell us why the courtvwas wrong as you have the video of the judge in page 10

 

[HalimaJ]

Why not. I would marry for kids. I would marry to fulfil my needs. I would marry to help raise my sibilings. I would marry out of naxariis and danwadag

How does one fulfill their needs when they are not attracted to their partner?

How does one have a happy marriage when they dislike their partner?

Where is the love and compassion in that situation?

 

[Suldaanka]

You’re not following the religion. You’re an extremist who uses the religion when he sees fit. You nitpick things from the religion. You’re not above anyone.

I will blow your brains out from your arse. Dabada danyeerka aa u eegtahay.

I dont know what extremist means. Second tell me were i have missed represented islam on this forum since October. Tell me where im wrong in my Dawah.
Please elaborate and lets not resort to name calling and act like civilised intellects. Bring your proof