HISTORIC RULING: 14yr Girl wins case against forced marriage in Somaliland

[Suldaanka]

How does one fulfill their needs when they are not attracted to their partner?

How does one have a happy marriage when they dislike their partner?

Read the qisas of Omar ibn Khattab and his wife when they reached a certain age.
You will find your answer there. Everything is in islam. You cant formulate ideas and arguments outside of islam when the matter is Islamic

Waxa la yiirada Godobtir weliga ma maqashay

 

[HalimaJ]

I may not agree with his specific goal but he makes a good point western culture doesn’t see Somali culture as a good thing

Why is it anything to do with respecting women as human beings as western culture?

When men on this forum do this you are doing a disservice to your religion.

You cannot scream islam is a religion of mercy and then try to the best of your ability to strip our God given rights as women all in the name of dhaqan.

 

[HalimaJ]

Read the qisas of Omar ibn Khattab and his wife when they reached a certain age.
You will find your answer there. Everything is in islam. You cant formulate ideas and arguments outside of islam when the matter is Islamic

Waxa la yiirada Godobtir weliga ma maqashay

In islam it is encouraged for the bride and groom to see each other before marriage as marriage is a protection of Zina.

Having a spouses that one is attracted to protects one from looking outside the home.

Brush up on your islamic knowledge.

Also, a woman in islam can get a divorce is really dislikes her spouse ect.

 

[Suldaanka]

Why is it anything to do with respecting women as human beings as western culture?

When men on this forum do this you are doing a disservice to your religion.

You cannot scream islam is a religion of mercy and then try to the best of your ability to strip our God given rights as women all in the name of dhaqan.

When you quote Western ideology to justify certain things is wrong. Your god given rights are in islam. Stay in your lane and men also stay in their lanes. Xuquq bey dadka leyihin. The west tries to manipulate the youth into thinking that islam is barbaric when in fact everything they preach is agaisnt the rules of islam.

Do you belivev women should vote?

 

[Suldaanka]

In islam it is encouraged for the bride and groom to see each other before marriage as marriage is a protection of Zina.

Having a spouses that one is attracted to protects one from looking outside the home.

Brush up on your islamic knowledge.

Also, a woman in islam can get a divorce is really dislikes her spouse ect.

Again why would i brush up when you cant quote anything and from my view lack an islamic understanding on many things.
Do you know your rights as a wife in islam?

 

[halwa]

I dont know what extremist means. Second tell me were i have missed represented islam on this forum since October. Tell me where im wrong in my Dawah.
Please elaborate and lets not resort to name calling and act like civilised intellects. Bring your proof

Just the way you talk about certain sensitive objects, seeing women as birth machines, your lack of empathy and emotion towards females. Your barbaric ways in which you talk about certain topics lightly, like this one. Instead of understanding why a little child ran away, you instead talk about how it is in our religion to give away our children forcefully.

You’re disgusting. You even participated in clan killings. I really question your childhood and life. How do you sleep at night? I don’t need to prove myself. I’ve said it and everyone know it. I don’t need to waste my time scrolling through the forum.

You need to change your attitude towards women and act like the Prophet scw acted and follow the sunnah. You preach about the religion yet you don’t act on it properly.

 

[HalimaJ]

When you quote Western ideology to justify certain things is wrong. Your god given rights are in islam. Stay in your lane and men also stay in their lanes. Xuquq bey dadka leyihin. The west tries to manipulate the youth into thinking that islam is barbaric when in fact everything they preach is agaisnt the rules of islam.

Do you belivev women should vote?

You try and justify your unislamic ideology rooted in certain aspects of dhaqan. You're attitude is barbaric NOT islam.

Don't you dare try to talk to me as though I am someone who has no idea of her religion when you are clearly a man that follow dhaqan over religion. You keep on qouting dhaqan, whilst I have been consistant in what is haraam and halal.


Forced marriages being wrong isn't a western ideology. Nice try.

 

[Puffin Stuff]

Why is it anything to do with respecting women as human beings as western culture?

When men on this forum do this you are doing a disservice to your religion.

You cannot scream islam is a religion of mercy and then try to the best of your ability to strip our God given rights as women all in the name of dhaqan.

your assuming that I see feminism and female rights as a solely western thing when it’s clearly not this is comedic have you not heard of arawelo there’s no such thing as god given rights Sky daddy doesn’t care about anyone’s rights including myself (please don’t hang me fundamentalist it’s my black sense of humour) and I’m not intent on stripping anyone’s rights they’re clearly written in the law and I don’t have the power to do that so relax and stop being so offended

 

[Suldaanka]

You try and justify your unislamic ideology rooted in certain aspects of dhaqan.

Forced marriages being wrong isn't a western ideology. Nice try.

Again who was forced. You didnt even know how the consent worked. I have stated like 10x that forced marriage is unislamic. 10 different times. Don't come at me with this ahit.

Everyones issue is with the age difference. Whether you tell the truth or not

 

[East side]

This is getting out of hand. Lets stick to this case. Congratulations on the court for making this decision

 

[Suldaanka]

Most people here have an issue with the age difference if we are to tell the truth.
Some people have even asked me whether i would give my daughter out.

Age is a number.
Fear Allah. This stems from western standards

 

[Puffin Stuff]

This has been a interesting flame war there’s been alot of battles and heroic last stands but I’ve unfortunatly been severely wounded or something tell my mom I love her and goodbye folks

 

[HalimaJ]

Again who was forced. You didnt even know how the consent worked. I have stated like 10x that forced marriage is unislamic. 10 different times. Don't come at me with this ahit.

Everyones issue is with the age difference. Whether you tell the truth or not

No, you only mentioned consent after I told you consent is a must for both Virgin and non virgin.

This is the meaning of consent:

permission for something to happen or agreement to do something.

Permisson can be verbal or non verbal. A father still needs consent from his daughter. That is the Sharia.

You are the one that has problem with a court ruling even though scholars state a woman has every right to go the courts if such a situation happens.



Islam is a religion that has taken women wellbeing into consideration well before westerners so don't talk about the west to me.

Thank you, next.

 

[East side]

Most people here have an issue with the age difference if we are to tell the truth.
Some people have even asked me whether i would give my daughter out.

Age is a number.
Fear Allah. This stems from western standards

The thread is about the girl being forced. The judge even said she ran away from home. You choose to ignore what her claim is and what the judge said in argument of there is two sides to everything. Well whata the other side. Tell us what did the husband and father claim?

 

[Farm]

 

[Suldaanka]

No, you only mentioned consent after I told you consent is a must for both Virgin and non virgin.

This is the meaning of consent:

permission for something to happen or agreement to do something.

Permisson can be verbal or non verbal. A father still needs consent from his daughter. That is the Sharia.

Islam is a religion that has taken women wellbeing into consideration well before westerners so don't talk about the west to me.

Thank you, next.

Stupidity. Her silence or protest is her consent.
I mentioned before you did. You act like he makes her sign a contract before sex.
If she is quiet then she is given away. Simple and whats hard to understand.

My question is do you have an issue with 60yr old marrying 10yr old??

 

[Suldaanka]

The thread is about the girl being forced. The judge even said she ran away from home. You choose to ignore what her claim is and what the judge said in argument of there is two sides to everything. Well whata the other side. Tell us what did the husband and father claim?

We dont have that information. My point is lets not jump to conclusions and go for the necks of somali men.
Again no sane somali man would let his baby girl be put in a bad situation.

 

[Samaalic Era]

your assuming that I see feminism and female rights as a solely western thing when it’s clearly not this is comedic have you not heard of arawelo there’s no such thing as god given rights Sky daddy doesn’t care about anyone’s rights including myself (please don’t hang me fundamentalist it’s my black sense of humour) and I’m not intent on stripping anyone’s rights they’re clearly written in the law and I don’t have the power to do that so relax and stop being so offended

Arewelo is a bed time story and never existed sxb along with dhegdheer

 

[halwa]

your assuming that I see feminism and female rights as a solely western thing when it’s clearly not this is comedic have you not heard of arawelo there’s no such thing as god given rights Sky daddy doesn’t care about anyone’s rights including myself (please don’t hang me fundamentalist it’s my black sense of humour) and I’m not intent on stripping anyone’s rights they’re clearly written in the law and I don’t have the power to do that so relax and stop being so offended

Try and use full stops [.] when you’re writing. It is so hard to follow this now.

 

[HalimaJ]

Stupidity. Her silence or protest is her consent.
I mentioned before you did. You act like he makes her sign a contract before sex.
If she is quiet then she is given away. Simple and whats hard to understand.

My question is do you have an issue with 60yr old marrying 10yr old??

The whole thread is about a girl that has used her islamic right to go to an islamic court because she was forced, yet you have issues with that.

You even tried to use dhaqan as a scapegoat.

If you really cared about religion, you would have no issue.