u cant even speak her language
give it up man, u are in love with an idea, not reality,
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give it up man, u are in love with an idea, not reality,
Already know about that, only incels get tricked by that.
Men do the same thing to women aswell, they manipulate females who love them
it isnt a gender thing it is a human thing
Okay so explain why God kills innocent children, starves them, allows for pedophiles to prey on them? Does this make perfect sense or can we say that the ways of our Lord is beyond our understanding (which Allah actually states himself so you cannot actually make perfect sense of his ways as a human being)
This only work if the other person has similar thoughts and feelings. Otherwise is can get dangerous the guy becomes possessive might harm himself or others. I believe in more respect and care vs love. I want those I care about to feel it though my warm and actions.
You are shoving down my throat a narrative I have not put out there. She speaks English and Somali perfectly well. So we do speak two languages.
I never idealised about being with her, I just hated the fact that I missed her.
Okay so as a head of state, would you murder, rape, pillage your own people and let them know its all because you want good for them? Mentalities like that is what breeds despotism in society.
How can you say that God wants to see innocents suffer for their own good? Allah even says in His Qur'an man is punished/suffers as a result of what his own hands has done. In there is no mention of Allah saying I like to see people dying because it is what is ultimately good for them. As a matter of fact, Allah tells us to preserve human life.
Women are infatuated with men they consider to posses the skills to take care of their needs.
women only fall in love with men who take care of their most intimate needs, it’s called making “love”. Who Carries the burden of making the “love” men that’s who my child. That’s how women fall in love.
how many times must I correct you before you see the error in your ways.
Nope woman can become infatuated with men they deem attractive
Wrong women can fall in love with a man who doesn't even physically satisfy her
A man needs to emotionally satisfy her in order for her to become whipped to him
U literally sed u fell in love with her despite not knowing her well enough
So yes u do idealise her laakin u do not perceive it
When I have time I will respond to this, as u have made a heinous mistake, the holes in ur thinking are starting to show and ur ignorance is gushing out.
The quick answer is, head of state is not the same as God, you cannot compare anything to God.
No because Allah created us with the ability to die, and he created us with ability to suffer
the most beloved people to Allah are the martyrs and to be a martyrs u have to go through extreme suffering for the sake of Allah, the most beloved people to Allah are the people who have the most difficult lives,
Sa’d ibn Abi Waqqas reported: I said, “O Messenger of Allah, which people are tested most severely?” The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “They are the prophets, then the next best, then the next best. A man is put to trial according to his religion. If he is firm in his religion, his trials will be more severe. If he is weak in his religion, he is put to trial according to his strength in religion. The servant will continue to be put to trial until he is left walking upon the earth without any sin.”
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2398
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “If Allah wills good for someone, He afflicts him with trials.”
Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5321
Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
I don’t see what’s he doing wrong. He’s not simping sending mad money to her. And there’s no formalised relationship. I think our community needs more healthy and loving relationships. This foster well-adjusted children that see their parents showing love to one another.
Just out of interest, have you and your partner thought about having some Somali children of your own?
Yes! In the near future inshallah I’m excited.
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Abdisamad
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Some day in near future @hamar_oo_iidil will come out of the closed and tell us he's actually a xalimo who took the piss out of us all 
Nilotic
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Some day in near future @hamar_oo_iidil will come out of the closed and tell us he's actually a xalimo who took the piss out of us all
Remember I said “Women are infatuated with men they consider to posses the skills to take care of their needs.”
Another word for that is Arousal. Women are infatuated with men who aroused them not men they find attractive. You don’t know that because you lack real life experience.
This is the last time I will discuss this subject with you, because you have neither the experience nor the theoretical knowledge to speak on the matter.
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Thats great news mashAllah, I'll keep you all in my dua'a inshAllah everything goes smoothly
