Abdisamad
VIP
I wasn't looking at it at a sexual point of view, more from practical view point, like how I could provide for her and our potential kids adequately so they can have a good life and at the same time lives raise the kids in their own culture and country.. I didn't mean to neglect her or the kids.. Just looking at ways to provide for them since there are almost no well paid jobs in Somalia.Think about why you as a man want to also marry about think about why a woman would also want to marry.
Marriage is meant to safeguard you from evil. That is why a woman can divorce a man for leaving for more than 4 months or if she isn’t provided intimacy.
People are human. Not that cheating is ever acceptable, but what is the point of marriage if you only see your spouse once a year?