Have you ever gone to the dalka? It's beautiful tbh, the vast lands and the unburdened feeling, one can only feel longing after departureI for sure def plan on marrying one back home in the baadiyos sometime in the future in shaa allah
Having a wife back home
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I once out of curiosity tried to shukansi a fob girl, she demanded I should send her 1000 dollars at our first encounter lol..
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Not to mention it will be cheaper to maintain your family. They can live on $300 a month
Yami
4th Emir of the Akh Right Movement
She sounds insane lmao. Try your luck again trust there’s a lot of fob girls that are sweet souls
Yo broski have you ever wondered why we are in somali peoples business? I mean we are obviously genetically somali, but we don't have much in common with them you know. Our views and ways of life are antithetical in some ways. For example both of us would never be with somali woman etcShe sounds insane lmao. Try your luck again trust there’s a lot of fob girls that are sweet souls
You niggaz really scaring me wallahi
You're getting way too many opinions from unmarried somalis who all live in the west. Having a husband working in the west is a big flex for women back home, so there are lot of women okay with it.
Some guys I met in the gym their dads were living in Australia, UAE, US but they were born and raised in Hargesia. Doesn't sound ideal but is soo common.
Abdisamad
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Lool.. I'm already scared sxb, after I was told as soon as I'm out of the house some guy called abdifatax would slip in and wear my macawis and wife beaters while my money would be financing his khat consumption.. That's scary shit right there lol.
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Nope in xamar it wont work i dont know smal towns in puntland
Think about why you as a man want to also marry about think about why a woman would also want to marry.
Marriage is meant to safeguard you from evil. That is why a woman can divorce a man for leaving for more than 4 months or if she isn’t provided intimacy.
People are human. Not that cheating is ever acceptable, but what is the point of marriage if you only see your spouse once a year?
As per usual, fatherlessness, women as glorified baby makers whilst the father is out of the country and the wife does everything alone and the kids don’t know their father that well since he only comes once a year for a month.
We’re meant to break that cycle but it seems many young Faraxs want to follow into the footstep and don’t understand that making money isn’t the only requirement of fatherhood and being a husband.
Why should a woman marry if she can’t even get companionship?
We’re meant to break that cycle but it seems many young Faraxs want to follow into the footstep and don’t understand that making money isn’t the only requirement of fatherhood and being a husband.
Why should a woman marry if she can’t even get companionship?
Yeah by the way i think men dont have good idea of woman sexual demands . So we only look from men perspective.
Do u think woman are more sexualy driven than men but usualy are good at hiding it becos of social presures.
It’s not just about sex. It’s also about companionship, having someone to come home to or they come home to you. Being your partners best friend, travelling together, raising the kids together and also having that intimacy as well. For women, it’s also the romance/ and closeness.
I hate that Somali men think of women as being glorified maids and baby makers. That’s why they think they can leave their wives abroad for years and funnily enough many of them get married in their local area as well, whilst condemning their wives to stay away for the sake of ‘making money’.
Yami
4th Emir of the Akh Right Movement
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having been back home nah i wouldn’t. from a culture/deen aspect i think marrying someone back home that you vibe with is extremly good for retaining our culture in the future for both genders. if it was pre 1990 and how Somali women back home looked like i would maybe entertain but i cant stand the beauty standards back home nowdays.
Yami
4th Emir of the Akh Right Movement
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Plotting world domination
I can settle down with a non somali but before I do that I want to at least attempt to find a non practicing xalimo. I can qualify for relocation with my job so I got a choice between staying where I'm at or moving to either Boston or Seattle.
Strongly considering Seattle because they have a bunch of somalis and Ethiopians. So if I can't find a non practicing xalimo I'll just date another Ethiopian.
Also hanging out in Somali spaces is fun.
Yami
4th Emir of the Akh Right Movement
Ethiopians are a decent option too as long as she’s not a hardcore polytheist
Having a wife back home feels like prostitution but with extra steps, extra cost, and less frequentness. The day I finished uni and got a job my abo offered me this route had to politely decline the post war beauty standards are something else.
