Girls have you ever taken the first step with a guy?

Karim

I could agree with you but then we’d both be wrong
HALYEEY
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Nope. I have zero intentions of shooting shots. With men I'm like a Deer at headlights in that I'm oblivious/in my own world. I don't really have the intention of getting to know them better. Weird huh? If they are cool people or interesting in some way doesn't imply there is a connection. Just a couple commonalities. I run away from the majority of nimaan that show signs of interest.
Why run away from men who show signs of interest?! :drakewtf: At least give them a chance. Plan for your married future abaayo.
 
I have 0 interest in a woman that shows me interest, I could be in 5 year relationship with you the day you show interest is the day I lose interest
 
I would’ve done that no cap then stick it up my haar hole then lick that shit dirty NO HOMO


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nigga you gay
 

Phiirso

Getting draids inshallah
I have 0 interest in a woman that shows me interest, I could be in 5 year relationship with you the day you show interest is the day I lose interest

why you like unavailable women and who made you that way

@Idyllic don't overcomplicate it, ask him out and you might end up with a real ass relationship with someone cool


The last girl who shot her shot at me was also my quickest experience ever getting a girl in the bed.

I'm just lazy but having girls choose you just makes things so much easier if not verbally by their actions
 

Abdalla

Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
Prof.Dr.Eng.
VIP
Girls: If i like him I'll show interest by being nice and smile at him
Also girls: Just because she's nice to you and smiles doesn't mean she's interest

We're dealing with these creatures :noneck:
 
Girls hold your horses, men are still on an evolutionary process they still have not reached the higher plane of understanding your humaness and appreciating normal human practise. They still think you are from another planet. Hope and pray for the day they will become normal humans
and extend to you your rights to normal exhaltions like seeking and being seeked
 
Girls: If i like him I'll show interest by being nice and smile at him
Also girls: Just because she's nice to you and smiles doesn't mean she's interest

We're dealing with these creatures :noneck:
This is where you go in for the jugular and ask. Niin raag iska dhig, word to Hodan Naleyah (AUN).
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
Why run away from men who show signs of interest?! :drakewtf: At least give them a chance. Plan for your married future abaayo.

Benefits of not considering them marriage/relationship material:

1. No Bridges burned
2. Peace of mind
3. No uncertainty

I know guys who look good, are well-educated and finacially self-sufficent but would not consider. Why? There is a key element missing. One or more of the following is not there: 1) Compassion, 2) Reliability 3) Value Alignment 4) Lifestyle or Spiritual Compatbilities.

Would it make sense to shove a round peg into a square whole? Nope. Its not in me to become a surrogate hooyo (to a peer) and change a man. If they want good convo and to exchange ideas that's cool but I will not invest myself beyond gaining some insight.

Marriage is a big deal. Be wise and get it right the first time because divorce is devastating on multiple levels. That means being highly discerning of who you marry and taking time to really figure someone out.
 

Karim

I could agree with you but then we’d both be wrong
HALYEEY
VIP
Benefits of not considering them marriage/relationship material:

1. No Bridges burned
2. Peace of mind
3. No uncertainty

I know guys who look good, are well-educated and finacially self-sufficent but would not consider. Why? There is a key element missing. One or more of the following is not there: 1) Compassion, 2) Reliability 3) Value Alignment 4) Lifestyle or Spiritual Compatbilities.

Would it make sense to shove a round peg into a square whole? Nope. Its not in me to become a surrogate hooyo (to a peer) and change a man. If they want good convo and to exchange ideas that's cool but I will not invest myself beyond gaining some insight.

Marriage is a big deal. Be wise and get it right the first time because divorce is devastating on multiple levels. That means being highly discerning of who you marry.
My dearest sister, I genuinely think you have to compromise on your expectations of perfection. I'm 💯 certain that the perfect partner does not exist. They are merely a construct of your imagination created to fuel fantasies.

Remove the fantasy from the canvas of your mind and replace it with a mature disposition that will make you accepting of the oddities and flaws of a real person. Prime yourself to see the perfection in the imperfection of another, love them anyway, and be willing to stick with them for the long haul.

What I'm telling you is that instead of wasting time searching for an exact match, look for the guy who is free of your deal breakers and has 80 percent of what you do want in a partner. The other 20 percent you can grow. If the guy has 80 percent of what you want and potential to grow the extra 20 percent, you need to bag up that boy because he is good to go. Do not walk past him while you're looking for Mr. 100 Percent, because somebody else is going to marry Mr. 80 Percent, and you are going to be standing there 60 percent sad and 40 percent frustrated.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
My dearest sister, I genuinely think you have to compromise on your expectations of perfection. I'm 💯 certain that the perfect partner does not exist. They are merely a construct of your imagination created to fuel fantasies.

Remove the fantasy from the canvas of your mind and replace it with a mature disposition that will make you accepting of the oddities and flaws of a real person. Prime yourself to see the perfection in the imperfection of another, love them anyway, and be willing to stick with them for the long haul.

What I'm telling you is that instead of wasting time searching for an exact match, look for the guy who is free of your deal breakers and has 80 percent of what you do want in a partner. The other 20 percent you can grow. If the guy has 80 percent of what you want and potential to grow the extra 20 percent, you need to bag up that boy because he is good to go. Do not walk past him while you're looking for Mr. 100 Percent, because somebody else is going to marry Mr. 80 Percent, and you are going to be standing there 60 percent sad and 40 percent frustrated.

I'll pass. Being honest (at this stage in life) I would not care if they got married to whomever. They are not for me and so its ordained by IIahi. Am I being a perfectionist? Nope. I recognize everyone has their foibbles. The older I get the less willing I am to put up with certain behaviours. I do not like when people repeatedly break promises/commitments. I do not like excuses. I do not like when people do not show up for you when they say they will. I have Alx deleted all my socials and my life though smaller feels better. I appreciate aloneness and peace of mind. At least I am a factor within my control.
 
The few times a girl approached me and took the initiative, I was honestly flattered, I did not think it weird at all. It's in the HOW.

It was nice for a change.

Plus, you do it much nicer than us who are not as refined!

For instance, this girl's opener was "nice cologne, where do I get one for my lazy brother" which made both of us laugh.
 
I'll pass. Being honest (at this stage in life) I would not care if they got married to whomever. They are not for me and so its ordained by IIahi. Am I being a perfectionist? Nope. I recognize everyone has their foibbles. The older I get the less willing I am to put up with certain behaviours. I do not like when people repeatedly break promises/commitments. I do not like excuses. I do not like when people do not show up for you when they say they will. I have Alx deleted all my socials and my life though smaller feels better. I appreciate aloness and peace of mind. At least I am a factor within my control.
I really thing you are possesed by a particularly jealous and self pompous jinn
Your standards are beyond normal human ones, there must be another dimension in your case.
My dear sis my advise would be seek islamic remedy or cure, maybe somebody gave you the eye
Somehow and somewhere.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
I really thing you are possesed by a particularly jealous and self pompous jinn
Your standards are beyond normal human ones, there must be another dimension in your case.
My dear sis my advise would be seek islamic remedy or cure, maybe somebody gave you the eye
Somehow and somewhere.

Give it a break with the demon posession just because I have standards?
For some reason stanards means perfection to some of you lot. :dead:
 
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