Notice how you are blaming OP for "ruining" her "relationship" (more like her safe option) with the other miskeen dude who was probably putting her on a pedastal for over 1 year. The blame is on her for trying to have it both ways (have fun while also looking for a "provider"). And I would also mildly put some blame on the other nacas nigga who was with her for over one year and didn't see any of this. But who knows, it might have been the first girl who reciprocated feeling for him to and he was all in love with her for that reason. Hope he was young at least, the best lessons are those you experience IRL yourself.
I would maybe had thought that it would be petty of
@ilamos to expose her hoeish behavior if this had occurred a long time ago when she was young (18-20) and time had moved on before she tried settle down with that miskeen and obviously unexperienced dude. I personally believe that it's your duty to tell what you know only if a close male relative or a childhood friend tries to make a hoejabi into a wife, other then that I'ts non of my business.
Last but not least, This is why you don't ask females (most of them at least, always some exceptions) for tips regarding how to be with women, poor fellow who was her "safe option" probably didn't have older brothers or wasn't experienced in the game himself and asked people like his mom or female "friends" and acquaintances for tips with women. A crappy analogy laakin nonetheless still valid "Don't ask fish for advice on how to catch fish".
Still makes me giggle low key when I read what
@Angela Davis wrote here
"The man was going to propose to her....and you decided to ruin their relationship for no reason aside from just because". Thats not how it works, wallahi indhihi baa I daalay. How can that be your conclusion from reading his text? Must be because you are trying to put yourself in her shoes or something
