Only a subset of cadan men do this
It does not compare to the shaming that Somali men do.
Anyway Somali women have reclaimed their sexual reproductive systems, if we want to give it to Tyrone or Ben, it’s our choice. The only thing you have ownership of is your right hand, enjoy it.
I don’t think IR marriage is the problem most dudes have here though. It’s the unnecessary gas lighting of Somali men on social media that evokes this shaming behaviour from the men. Their low standards for ajanabi men and marrying ex-cons isn’t helping either. Anyways, it’s Somali girls who started the shit flinging in the first place, that’s obvious.