Why she didn’t do istikhaara is beyond me.
Why she didn’t do istikhaara is beyond me.
Fake marriages are absolutely haram. It’s 50% of the deen and not something we should play with.She is not complicit in it though. Has nothing to do with her and unless she or the wife report it the government will never know. It’s common thing and not a big deal. Both me and my sister has sponsored people
Easy for you to say when you’re born in the west but if you were back home and had the opportunity you’d change your thinking real quickFake marriages are absolutely haram. It’s 50% of the deen and not something we should play with.
Even though you were probably born in the west you had the privilege to live like a fob. The number of times I get offers is mind boggling 25k-40k usd.
I understand but I’d find another way to help and would do it as much as I can. Dunya is 2 days, no point in angering Allah. Especially with something that’s considered half the deen.Easy for you to say when you’re born in the west but if you were back home and had the opportunity you’d change your thinking real quick
Why would your relatives want to come to America if they have JUST as much opportunities than those in the West?Immigration fraud is never good. Desperate situations make people do desperate things. I tell my relatives when they ask me to sponsor them, you can do well back home if you want to make a difference in your life.
Nope nope nope. This is what happened to me while pregnant. I kid you not. I even got pstd reading this cause I remember how stressed it made me that he would even suggest this.Very common thing,
But if I was her, I would be very careful.
She should postphone the wedding.
The 'cousin' could very well be the 1st wife. You can't put much past a lot of people these days.
Once the cousin comes, she will easily find out what exactly her relationship is to him. Until then, she shouldn't risk it.
Hows it haram when the legality of marriage in regards to secular Western governments dont even solidify an Islamic marriage?I understand but I’d find another way to help and would do it as much as I can. Dunya is 2 days, no point in angering Allah. Especially with something that’s considered half the deen.
You do realise if hes married/marrying her and leaving first wife wouldnt he have to pay for her sponsership? He also has to be economically responsible for her for 3 years.Nope nope nope. This is what happened to me while pregnant. I kid you not. I even got pstd reading this cause I rembewr how stressed it made me that he would even suggest this.
This is a sign from Allah swt. Our magnificent ruler will show us things that may stress us and may seem to be a negative thing, but wlalahi it’s a Godsend and a sign to leave.
I was pregnant while this happened. She doesn’t seem to be, and she can get out.
I almost miscarried hearing this news from him, and alhamdillah, Allah swt is good to me that I now have my child with me now.
Ladies, if your husband suggests this… please look into it, but make plans to leave. The other ladies I know who beileved it and went along with it… guess what ?
When that “cousin” came, he left the wife for her.
I know way too many women and men this happened to.
Jaydaan sir, we know there are plenty of people in our community who do this for good reasons and sponsor people so they can come and work and send money to support theirShe is not complicit in it though. Has nothing to do with her and unless she or the wife report it the government will never know. It’s common thing and not a big deal. Both me and my sister has sponsored people
Probably ? He flat out told me he loved her and that was his best friend and that he wanted her to come and live with us.Hows it haram when the legality of marriage in regards to secular Western governments dont even solidify an Islamic marriage?
You do realise if hes married/marrying her and leaving first wife wouldnt he have to pay for her sponsership? He also has to be economically responsible for her for 3 years.
Its a big taking on so he probably is cheating lol.
Angelina it clearly says that he’s bringing her as a wife.Very common thing,
But if I was her, I would be very careful.
She should postphone the wedding.
The 'cousin' could very well be the 1st wife. You can't put much past a lot of people these days.
Once the cousin comes, she will easily find out what exactly her relationship is to him. Until then, she shouldn't risk it.
And not 5 in 1 body wash.If only they invested in chapstick instead of second wives
Smart, just walk away. I was pregnant while asked this… and he told me straight up he wanted to make her another wife.Hmm I would be too ashamed to ask him to cancel. We are not married we’re not married that would be too much to ask I would walk away instead.
This hapoens a lot. There are people who sponsor for genuine good reasons, but there are plenty, both men and woman who will sponsor a “cousin” and later you will find out it’s a wife or husband.His “cousin” that he needs to sponsor is A LOT. You can’t petition anyone that isn’t your spouse or sibling. He would’ve said if he was sponsoring her as a fake sibling but even then sometimes they require blood tests or proof. He will do it as a spouse.
You don’t think that’s sus? They are gonna be legally married
I wish a nigga would try that on me.
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Some people offer to pay someone to do it. From what someone here has said, they’ll offer 15-25 grand at times. I’ve even been offered money like that, but I’ve always said no.Is it possible to get paid and also marry the girl in the process?