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I was thinking... wow what a toxic culture that she has to be both a father, a son, a daughter, and a mom. Then as the story went on I realized that's your typical Somali household... I'm so ashamed.

The most fucked up part is, even though Xalimo's are basically the bread winners, workers, electricians, handy man in their household to lazy ass men... they still don't get respected as equals and deal with extreme sexism from our culture.

Imagine women doing this being called the "weaker sex" or less intelligent.
At least other cultures when they oppress women expect them to do less work physically or financially... in the Somali households Xalimo's have to provide, work, and still get treated like Qashin.

Somali women are not the main breadwinners neither do they have more lucrative careers than Somali men, y'all have been running with this narrative for too long. Anytime I ask for receipts, the anecdotes come out.
 
Why did the OP bring up her two brothers doing bad? Pakistanis in the UK disproportionately make up the bulk of offending groups when it comes to child exploitation and grooming gangs, are notorious for money laundering, and just as prone to being on streets as Somali males, yet Xalimos are happy to see our name dragged on that thread, even here. :cosbyhmm:
 
Why did the OP bring up her two brothers doing bad? Pakistanis in the UK disproportionately make up the bulk of offending groups when it comes to child exploitation and grooming gangs, are notorious for money laundering, and just as prone to being on streets as Somali males, yet Xalimos are happy to see our name dragged on that thread, even here. :cosbyhmm:

He definitely went overboard shaming her family to the world while keeping his matters more private.
 
There's not many concrete statistic sources (AFAIK) but the one I found does allude to Somali women being breadwinners.

Is it a narrative though? Majority of the households I see around me have their daughters/mothers as breadwinners.




Look up report: Somali women forging alliances to safeguard equal rights for all
which was written by the Federal Government of Somalia Ministry of Women and Human
Rights development.


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Every group/race of women earn more degrees than their male counterparts, every group of women are employed at higher numbers than their male counterparts (because women out number men). No group of women earn more than their male counterparts.
 

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if being educated means going to uni and getting a degree in anything then maybe xalimos are more 'educated'. until they do more STEM degrees i won't believe this bs.

glad you brought this up, never saw any stats on this topic so I remained neutral.
 
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We are roughly equal in number (if you mean that).
 
if being educated means going to uni and getting a degree in anything then maybe xalimos are more 'educated'. until they do more STEM degrees i won't believe this bs.

glad you brought this up, never saw any stats on this topic so I remained neutral.

A lot of degrees are practically useless nowadays, Unis just pad them out with degrees such as Lesbian Dance Theory, Diversity Arts, and Communications.
 
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We are roughly equal in number (if you mean that).

China and India heavily skew those numbers for men, and you know how disastrous their one child policy was (which favoured boys), now millions of Chinese men have no prospects of getting a partner unless they venture out the country.
 
Y'all Need To Stop Saying This Is Somali Culture Because Where I Live The Men Rule I Clean Shop Cook Pay The Bills Fight Ect Anything And This Was Taught By My Father The Girl Clearly Had A Rough Upbringing I Think This A Case For The Reer Magaal Sleepwalkers


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Y'all Need To Stop Saying This Is Somali Culture Because Where I Live The Men Rule I Clean Shop Cook Pay The Bills Fight Ect Anything And This Was Taught By My Father The Girl Clearly Had A Rough Upbringing I Think This A Case For The Reer Magaal Sleepwalkers


Hail Tuulo Where Real Gs Live

That's a good upbringing, hopefully we can see more young men raised this way with the coming generations.
 
Typical life of a Somali eldest daughter. Everybody in the comments could tell right away it was a Somali girl, smfh

She’s lucky her husband is ajnabi and so he can see what is wrong with this dynamic. A Somali man wouldn’t care and would just expect her to continue self-sacrificing, breaking her back and ruining her health all because she is a woman


Blaming Somali men for a girl who is helping her family and saying nice things about an ajnabi guy? Go marry an ajnabi and hit the jackbox.

If your new hubby is a South Asian, he will definitely beat the shit out of you like your fellow Xalimos who married timojileec experienced.

And if he is a dhagax boy, he will abandon you, and we'll find you in forums and social media, attacking Somali men and saying they're racist and wont accept your muuq-shabeel looking kids.

I used to read in Ummah forum and abandoned that place because of single moms who were divorced by ajnabis bashing the Somali communities were very common there. So go for the ajnabis that you say nice things about them, but own your decision and don't take jabs at us when you get disappointed.

Are you okay? They are married already, the family did not oppose the marriage?!

How are they remotely similar. You're making yourself look dumb as you're trying to find a non existent link.

Wow, wow, eedo @Angelina saw a story where an ajnabi guy is saying nice things about his supposed Somali "wife" while dissing her father and brothers, and she jumps up and says explorers have said nice things about Somali women been hardworking, meaning Somali men aren't.

Ironically, when Somali girls marries ajnabi, they have a chip on their shoulders and can't just get over dissing Somali guys. It is more like you don't accept my choice, I am gonna keep dissing you guys. For goodness sake, if your dhagax, timojileec, or saancadaale hubbies are good, why don't you stick with them and be happy about it?

I'm getting sick of seeing the insecurities constantly expressed by these girls in Somali forums, social media, and in other platforms.
 
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Blaming Somali men for a girl who is helping her family and saying nice things about an ajnabi guy? Go marry an ajnabi and hit the jackbox.

If your new hubby is a South Asian, he will definitely beat the shit out of you like your fellow Xalimos who married timojileec experienced.

And if he is a dhagax boy, he will abandon you, and we'll find you in forums and social media, attacking Somali men and saying they're racist and wont accept your muuq-shabeel looking kids.

I used to read in Ummah forum and abandoned that place because of single moms who were divorced by ajnabis bashing the Somali communities. So go for the ajnabis that you say nice things about them, but own your decision and don't take jabs at us when you get disappointed.



Wow, wow, eedo @Angelina saw a story where an ajnabi guy is saying nice things about his supposed Somali "wife" while dissing her father and brothers, and she jumps up and says explorers have said nice things about Somali women been hardworking, meaning Somali men aren't.

Ironically, when Somali girls marries ajnabi, they have a chip on their shoulders and can't just get over dissing Somali guys. It is more like you don't accept my choice, I am gonna keep dissing you guys. For goodness sake, if your dhagax, timojileec, or saancadaale hubbies are good, why don't you stick with them and be happy about it?

I'm getting sick of seeing the insecurities constantly expressed by these girls in Somali forums, social media, and in other platforms.
I've never heard of these explorers sxb only reer magaal girls talk down on somali men i don't maybe the men of magaalo don't come with hip strange behavior but us tuulo folk are good


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maybe, i don't see it being toppled ever. although we don't live in the olden times, men still gotta lead. just get rid of the sexism and shit and we gucci. men are becoming too feminine so women start demanding more shit taking advantage of their docileness.

thats why these fds women are all looking for traditional men despite what they say. all their requirments are linked to trad stuff. even they want to be a little girl next to their SO.
You think the one who created women doesn't know how they should be dealt with? You criticise the Qur'an because you lack knowledge and you seem like an ignorant person anyhow.

The Sharia has wisdom in it and we human beings lack wisdom so I suggest you keep silent in things you have no knowledge of, it is better for you.
 
now youre realising ahahah, black women calling themselves strong has never ended well. lose lose situation, one hand youre too masculine or you can handle more work from people to showcase your strength. take some notes out of white womens books who use their gender to get what they want in life. start faking those tears abayo
Shut up. Your comment doesn't make sense. White men go after asian women. They tend to be more "feminine".

It has has nothing to do with being more feminine. A woman can get out of her masculinity and embrace her femininity if a man becomes the man. But in this case should the girl take a step back. She is doing too much.
 
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