Most of the criticism in this story is being directed at the timojileec poster because we're only getting his viewpoint. The only criticism towards the Somali girl is that she bypassed her parents in favour of her uncle which I'll leave to Allah S.W.T to judge.I hardly defend the haram actions of women. That isn't fair at all as in this forum men will defend men that sleep around, lie, cheat and the worst of it. Have you seen me defend women doing blatant haram?!
Nah, this isn't coming from a place of self hatred. I've been on this forum for time now. Have you seen me defend ajnabi men? I think most timo jelec and Arabs are worse than Somali men, but one thing i've noticed is that if a Somali girl marries out, there seems to be an obsession with the guys on this forum to find faults in her relationship and say things won't last. Believe me when I say this. If the OP was Somali we would not have this conversation. I'm consistant, but they're not.
Most normal people will simply engage with the post and understand that the Pakistani OP could be lying or he could be telling the truth, but overanalysing to such an extent you're creating your own version is insane to me.
We have to overanalyse because we aren't getting the full picture but rather the Pakistani guy's viewpoint regarding his wife's family dynamics.