Driving

[Averagegyallie]

Nope I’m sorry but I’m not about to catch the bus or take an Uber everytime.

 

[XaawoLuul]

I prefer a humble one that rides his donkey.
Enviromentally conscious brothers only in 2020.

 

[Desert Flower]

So ladies, my friend has started seeing a guy and......he doesn't drive. Initially my reaction was

But i'm the queen of minding my own business, so I didn't say anything to her. Its her life and it seems as though he has good qualities.

So i'm curious, would you girls give a guy that doesn't drive a chance?

how old is he? How old is she? Normally you hear of girls not knowing how to drive, but I have never come across a guy who doesn’t. That’s so cringe.

 

[HalimaJ]

how old is he? How old is she? Normally you hear of girls not knowing how to drive, but I have never come across a guy who doesn’t. That’s so cringe.

Girl:25
Guy:28

 

[Desert Flower]

Girl:25
Guy:28

Nah, that is unacceptable, does she know how to drive?

 

[HalimaJ]

Nah, that is unacceptable, does she know how to drive?

Yes

 

[Desert Flower]

Yes

Like you said, it’s her life. Couldn’t be me.

 

[AussieHustler]

Like you said, it’s her life. Couldn’t be me.

@Desert Flower

Is the driving a crucial rejection acceptance point? Can’t you encourage him to learn?

 

[Halimo-2018]

So ladies, my friend has started seeing a guy and......he doesn't drive. Initially my reaction was

But i'm the queen of minding my own business, so I didn't say anything to her. Its her life and it seems as though he has good qualities.

So i'm curious, would you girls give a guy that doesn't drive a chance?

Maybe he has his reasons. Depends in his age too. Does he have phobia of driving? Some people are scared of things maybe this is his. Give the guy a chance to prove himself to her.

 

[Desert Flower]

@Desert Flower

Is the driving a crucial rejection acceptance point? Can’t you encourage him to learn?

His parents should’ve handled that. Not my problem. He should learn himself.

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

Isn't he the same person who in @Robin's thread was saying he preferred cad-cad women to the "dhuxul" xalimos. He thinks he can come in here and tell xalimos that they should be focusing on the personality. All he ever talks about is looks. What a hypocrite.

So you are Dhuxul sweetheart? Damn! That is sexy.

 

[AussieHustler]

His parents should’ve handled that. Not my problem. He should learn himself.

@Desert Flower

Sxb, is driving very very important to you? When you first meet, do you ask him if he drives or not and is that a deal breaker if he doesn’t? You know people have choices and this chick that I once liked told me she can’t date a man who doesn’t like snakes and I hated them. How about if he is a pilot and owns his own two engine craft, but hates driving on the road. He will give you rides up in the sky and will you be prepared to give him rides on land? You know give and take!!

 

[ZakWantsToPlay]

I would encourage my brother or son to have a driver's license at 18 - 20 years old the latest in USA. You need Bella Macchina in America. It is not about a girl but out of necessity. A guy doesn't have to own a car either, he needs to get a license and keep it even without owning a car.


You get teased when you pull out State ID instead of a driver's license. Only grandmothers and Grandfathers pull out non driver's ID.

 

[AussieHustler]

So you are Dhuxul sweetheart? Damn! That is sexy.

@ZakWantsToPlay

Viva Dhuxul women. Don’t encourage Diana cream because 3/4 of reer Laas Caanood people are beautiful dhuxul like the Dinka Sudanese. The Scots only see @buule (your cousin’s) mouth when he opens it at night and they named him Sirius (his white teeth) after the brightest star .

 

[NotMyL]

It depends, where I live not be being able to drive won’t cut it as we drive everywhere, now if I lived in London or NYC I wouldn’t really care.

 

[Somalihustler]

So ladies, my friend has started seeing a guy and......he doesn't drive. Initially my reaction was

But i'm the queen of minding my own business, so I didn't say anything to her. Its her life and it seems as though he has good qualities.

So i'm curious, would you girls give a guy that doesn't drive a chance?

Ok...so what if he doesn't drive? Whats the biggie
Plus its not like your friend is some A list hollywood star to be demanding a car like that
You should come off your high horse and get humble real quick
If the man has a job and clean cut thats good enough
Unless your a billionaire or a Kardashian or something calm down naya loool

 

[Desert Flower]

@Desert Flower

Sxb, is driving very very important to you? When you first meet, do you ask him if he drives or not and is that a deal breaker if he doesn’t? You know people have choices and this chick that I once liked told me she can’t date a man who doesn’t like snakes and I hated them. How about if he is a pilot and owns his own two engine craft, but hates driving on the road. He will give you rides up in the sky and will you be prepared to give him rides on land? You know give and take!!

Too many hypotheticals and "what-ifs." If he can't drive, he needs to take the necessary steps to get that handled, period. I've never been in a situation where I had to ask b/c almost all men that I know do.

 

[Jaydaan]

Girl:25
Guy:28

It’s not that big of a deal. I mean it’s something he can fix in 5-6 months. It would be an issue if he said he never want to drive

 

[AarHawd_7]

Could say the same. Who wants a fat Xaaliimo that only knows how to jump on the 159 or knows how to change the district lane to the victoria line with her eyes closed

 

[VixR]

Yeah, bc in most parts of America, it’s hopeless not to own a car. It brings a lot into question pretty quickly through inference: joblessness, dependance on others.