Waxwaalan
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being viewed as unattractive isn't just a female problem, just ask short guys whether they gets the same attention and praise as other guys. same with fat guys, bald guys and so on.
but you don't see these guys trying to change what women find universally attractive because - newsflash - you can't force people to be attracted to you.
In every culture some traits will be valued more than others, in order for something to be considered ideal, something else must be less than ideal. It's two sides of the same coin.
basically another ”allivesmatter” kinda xaar reply.
we’re not talking about geeljire men, so lets leave them outta this discussion.
& comparing skin lightening to height doesn’t realistically work. It is possible for the average person to afford skin lightening, while you have to have messis bank account to afford height enhancement. If most men could alter their height, THEY WOULD.
And the two sides of the coin argument is bullshit too. We didn’t have this aspiration for lighter skin as geeljires before. With moving to lighter countries & being exposed to light skin people movies, the geeljire woman is starting to become self-conscious of her skin color. End of.