success rate will probably depend on how seriously you interrogate him about his personal background, especially if he’s a revert or came from a racist family bc you never know. Bc imagine you marry and then he divorced you after like 2 kids and then your hooyo goes “it’s bc he wasn’t somali”Let me explain why before y’all start attacking me. I love Somali guys…..to death and I would prefer one to marry. Sadly all the Farax’s I have vetted countless times keep disappointing me. They are never into the same activities I’m into, lack communication skills, lack EQ, Mommy’s boys, too feminine, sheikh shaytahns, and some can’t even hold eye contact. I’ve done everything to find a proper guy I even had my dad get involved and he seems to have a hard time. Thinking of marrying older or looking out of the country I’m 20 and live in Minnehopless for some context. Worst case scenario I’ll marry out of the culture.
This is all BS no statistics can prove this neither can ur experiences prove it either just shushThe success rates is like 1% the overwhelming majority end in failure.
The Somali female that mates/marries are not accepted back in the Somali community (except for the very rare anecdotal cases).
The Children struggle with identity issues, leading to lack of self-esteem and social isolation.
Agree with everything except the last statement about ajnabi marriages, we don't live in somalia, marrying an ajnabi in the west they will most likely grew up in the same culture as you so their won't be compatibility issuesFirst all let me say this Somalinimo is an exclusive club, being born into it just like islamnimo we take it for granted.
these idiots telling you as long as he is Muslim won’t be there for you tomorrow, when you lose your membership and become and outcast single mother with no community.
They are never into the same activities I’m into
it’s actually better if your man has different activities to you in the long run, so you can take brakes from each other. “Familiarity breeds contempt”.
lack communication skills, lack EQ, Mommy’s boys, too feminine, sheikh shaytahns, and some can’t even hold eye contact.
I want to personally thank you for stating the issues above, you are the third lady on this platform to speak the truth, I hope more follow suit.
Most Somali men are ignorant of female nature, they believe being harmless,sweet,telling lies, being shy, caring and giving are great male traits.
These beliefs were drilled into them from a young age by their overbearing mothers.
If you are 20 years of age and want a Somali man to spend your best years with, my advice is this…. Marry a man 10- 15 years your senior.
Such a man will satisfy you intellectually, physically and emotionally.
but if this is a justification to marry an ajinabi, hey knock yourself out. ultimately you’re gonna pay the price not me you dig.
ps. 90% of ajinabi marriages fail due to unreconcilable differences.
We dont live in the Prophet Sallallahu alayhiwasalams time, we live in a diffferent time, I dont advise anyone to get married young in this day and ageNow that's some Horseshite, 20 is not young to marry, Islamically you are encouraged to marry.
I disagree here beig caring and giving is good male traitcaring and giving are great male traits.
Yes I know it was a bait ass thread, she wanted a reply she got oneView attachment 234328
Somali man: when will you learn, when will you fuc*ing learn.
you’re being baited hard!
100% this. Somali girls are difficult to live with and you need a lot of patience. There is a Somali saying where a mule was asked sxb why are you so stubborn and the mule said if you think I’m stubborn you haven’t met xalimosMost interracial marriages between Somali women and ajnabi rarely work out because the Somali girl is generally strong-headed and independent.
Yeah, 6 million people have exactly the same character100% this. Somali girls are difficult to live with and you need a lot of patience. There is a Somali saying where a mule was asked sxb why are you so stubborn and the mule said if you think I’m stubborn you haven’t met xalimos
There is a Somali saying where a mule was asked sxb why are you so stubborn and the mule said if you think I’m stubborn you haven’t met xalimos
Confirmation biasSomali females are vulnerable when they go into interracial marriage the other side can sense the self-hate and will exploit her especially if African/Black and Asiastic they often abuse the Somali female and there is no one to defend her because if in Somali-Somali marriages you have a system called xeer that most Somalis abide by and ensure her rights plus the Somali families can mediate with each other very easily if their is problems with the marriage.
Here are the very common horror stories from this thread from a few years ago...
Confirmation bias
u have no real evidence to back it up