Do you think it's okay to date?

[Transparent]

I don't understand that whole thing though...a lot of guys live without s-x (involuntarily, perhaps) but when they're in a relationship, it becomes necessary all of a sudden??
If they've survived without it before, why go to the disgusting lengths of cheating...
Btw, are you speaking from personal experience, Mr. "I'm miskeen"?

It depends on the type of guy he is,if he is known to be promiscuous and you guys arent getting it in chances are that he is getting the blessed punani elsewhere.

 

[TooMacaan]

It depends on the type of guy he is,if he is known to be promiscuous and you guys arent getting it in chances are that he is getting the blessed punani elsewhere.

I would never date a promiscuous guy anyways so I'm good on that front. The problem I have is that this whole 'lack of s-xual discipline' thing is being generalized to most guys, including the so called "good" ones.

 

[Transparent]

Lol, the 'sharing the same bed' part is if we're already living together or the relationship reaches a more serious level-- kinda like a sleepover thing or falling asleep while cuddling (nothing more).
And haha yh, discipline/character is probably one of the most important things I look for; even more so than personality tbh.
....these days though, I'm starting to think I'm searching for a unicorn.

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[Transparent]

I would never date a promiscuous guy anyways so I'm good on that front. The problem I have is that this whole 'lack of s-xual discipline' thing is being generalized to most guys, including the so called "good" ones.

even the most religious nigga would venture into your pants if you guys go into the bed together,unless you make your intentions clear from the get go you would be giving him signals and the bedroom is the biggest sign that you want it

 

[Bernie Madoff]

I don't understand that whole thing though...a lot of guys live without s-x (involuntarily, perhaps) but when they're in a relationship, it becomes necessary all of a sudden??
If they've survived without it before, why go to the disgusting lengths of cheating...
Btw, are you speaking from personal experience, Mr. "I'm miskeen"?

No i'm not what made you think that

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[KULTA]

@Professor @Charlamagne @Malcolm X y'all can't get any?

 

[TooMacaan]

even the most religious nigga would venture into your pants if you guys go into the bed together,unless you make your intentions clear from the get go you would be giving him signals and the bedroom is the biggest sign that you want it

Nah, that'd mean he wasn't devoutly religious to begin with.The whole point of celibacy is refusing it, especially when it's easily/readily available-- just bc it's the right thing to do. Actually, this may be a good sh!t test to see how disciplined he is lol.
Anyways, I don't intend to share beds but yh...if I did, I'd make my intentions clear from the get go. No mixed signals.

 

[Mercury]

even the most religious nigga would venture into your pants if you guys go into the bed together

Why are you so sure that would happen?

Why not stop and tell her You cant go through with this and the only person youll Ever have sex with is your future wife

 

[Transparent]

Why are you so sure that would happen?

Why not stop and tell her You cant go through with this and the only person youll Ever have sex with is your future wife

That sort of restraint isnt feasible,its better to nip it in the but and avoid going to the bedroom at all costs

 

[Mercury]

That sort of restraint isnt feasible,its better to nip it in the but and avoid going to the bedroom at all costs

Exactly

 

[Zumar]

So i was dating this cadaan muslim guy, we had like 3/4 dinners at a restaurant, nothing more nothing less

At first he seemed pretty normal and decent
But when i told him i didnt see a relationship and i didnt want to have one

He became mad and stalked me for a couple weeks (he's done now, sort of)

Anyways no dating for me
This shit creeped the f*ck out of me

 

[Transparent]

So i was dating this cadaan muslim guy, we had like 3/4 dinners at a restaurant, nothing more nothing less

At first he seemed pretty normal and decent
But when i told him i didnt see a relationship and i didn't want to have one

He became mad and stalked me for a couple weeks (he's done now, sort of)

Anyways no dating for me
This shit creeped the f*ck out of me

one question,who paid?

 

[Zumar]

one question,who paid?

First and second date he paid and later i paid my half
But i dont think its weird for him to pay?

 

[Transparent]

First and second date he paid and later i paid my half
But i dont think its weird for him to pay?

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[Zumar]

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I dont think money is the issue here
I would pay him like 5x the amount of those dinners to leave me the f*ck alone

Anyways hes done sending this scary messages to me so i guess its cool

 

[Garaad Darawiish]

I've been seeing a lot of farax/halimo bashing threads where the OP was in a relationship. As @Duke of Bohol would (probably) say: why marry a girl you can date? It's like ordering a meal when you can get unlimited free samples of it.

So for those who would date: what's your reasoning behind it?

I'm also interested in how everyone sees the boyfriend and the girlfriend. Guys, if you get a gf, would you seriously consider marrying her? Or is she just the appetizer?

In the community it's not really seen badly for the guy unless the girl is pious but it's a death sentence for the girl. Thoughts?

Why buy a cow, when u can milk it for free?

 

[ItsHanna]

Zina is haram.

 

[Transparent]

Zina is haram.

no shit sherlock

 

[Someone]

I would date to get to know the person without any sexual interaction

 

[yibir]

I would have to date the girl a while before any marriage. Honestly, I usually have sex also, I don't really care if she virgin or not. To me a virgin is very boring in bed

I can teach you to a certain degree, but I don't want to be the one to bust your hymen. I value a lot of things way more then if she is "intact" down stairs. I actually see the virginity as a negative thing