There is certainly a small minority of virgins, but the statistics are skewed and we don't know if the sources are correct. Women are great deceivers so i just live my life assuming we are all sinners. No surprises in my life.
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The statistics are based on ajnabis that are normally Judeo-Christian or irreligious. Attitudes toward sex are laxer for them. You might occasionally have asexuals which are very few and far in between and the straight edged ones. There is no way of determining this in Muslims because you get some serious under-reporting but I think due to social taboos surrounding this behavior it's less prevalent than the mainstream. All you have at the end of the day is faith and trust. Some people are more conscientious and cautious than others when it comes to relations. And humans are different and motivated by different things, they aren't just automatons looking to scratch a prurient itch. The meanings they make and their environment are conducive to certain types of behaviors.
Let's take sexual acts or sex for instance. For starters, people are less likely to engage in behavior if it is:
1. Unattractive - The thought of having relations with a man with no obligation to you does not appeal to you.
2. Difficult - You are challenging to get to know and set limits/boundaries for individuals. Making them fully aware that if they respect you they will act like a perfect gentleman. If not your father has a shotgun.
3. Invisible - You make yourself difficult to reach and haven't really talked to man guys (romantically).
4. Loss/Painful - The thought of sex is injurious to one's life, self-esteem, sense of personal integrity and family honor. Let's not forget, creating entanglements can put girls in a vulnerable predicament since they have so much to lose in terms of unplanned pregnancies, STIs, hormonal imbalances from longterm birth control use, and can keep them longer in unhealthy relationships.
Now let's look at the myriad of benefits from remaining a virgin.
1) No creeps.
2) More male friendships.
3) No comparisons.
4) No chemicals.
5) No immaculate conception
6) More trust
7) No emotional over-investment in relationships
8) Fewer issues with fertility as many are associated with STIs.
9) Comfortable advising future children
10) Top notch banter.
11) Greater command of respect (brothers know not to mess with you)
12) People usually put you on a pedestal, how could you let them down?
You are actually speaking truth to that list I created a few threads ago. Men with pasts always assume everyone has had some @$$.:siilaanyolaugh: It sort of justifies their wantonness, if they think "if everyone is doing it, then it gives me a carte blanche". It doesn't factor into account that even back home women are not all chaste, and girls who live in the west who have abstained all their lives for personal and/or religious reasons are more resilient as they have been challenged by greater vices.
. Female game is never giving them what they want. Kind of like the story of Tantalus - banished to Tartus and forced to endure an unquenchable thirst and insatiable hunger (never fully realized). That's how men are to be treated (wanting the idea of having you but never ever getting close). 
They seem more in love with the journey than the destination. So allow them to stay forever in purgatory or just stop the oneitis and leave to someone who will maybe give them a crumb.
Note to self, psycho would make a bad house husband. Men should stay at home and raise babies as the 21st C intended.
