Can Guys and Girls be just friends?

[Lostbox]

You can but most fade over time. The ones that I've still have a strong friendship with are female friends from my childhood

 

[Halimak]

What if they both don't find each other attractive whatsoever and have similar interests?

 

[Caaro]

Na, I can separate women from women who I'm attracted to. I find it easy to make those conscious decisions. Plus, attraction fades

That’s where the last part comes in. If she’s unattractive then it’s easy.

 

[Caaro]

What if they both don't find each other attractive whatsoever and have similar interests?

That can work. Even then I’d imagine there’d be a gender barrier.

 

[Sophisticate]

Absolutely. It’s because he wants you for himself. Even if you never gave him signs that you’re interested, he still might think there’s a chance between you two.

This is why you pretend to be woefully ignorant of any signs of interest.

I always assume they don't like me like that. Or their interest will fade.

In the event they were interested or confess it.... *SHOCK*

 

[Vanessa]

I have a nice guy friend, he always buy me a dinner and takes me to a movie.

 

[Halimak]

I have a nice guy friend, he always buy me a dinner and takes me to a movie.

 

[ReerVanCadde]

Can we talk about how some totally savage girls exist? I had the luxury of adding my number to the contacts of a decent looking xalimo, only to see Hussein nandos and Abdi driver on her contacts. Never spoke to her again lol

 

[Desert Flower]

No, you can be friendly acquaintances but anything more than that means dude wants to smash.

What if the girl is attractive? Or has a great personality? Would you still be able to remain platonic, and not have your mind wonder to “what ifs?”

 

[Desert Flower]

You can but most fade over time. The ones that I've still have a strong friendship with are female friends from my childhood

Yeah this makes sense. I’m referring to guys you met as an adult, or in your case, women.

 

[Juke]

What if the girl is attractive? Or has a great personality? Would you still be able to remain platonic, and not have your mind wonder to “what ifs?”

If she's good looking that's more incentive to smash.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Yes, if they both have boundaries and manners.

 

[kickz]

Online can work, but I don't see it in real life working, don't think that it would be a good idea deen wise either.

 

[Dooyo]

I don't become good friends with most guys I meet. We stay as friendly acquaintances. 40% of my humor is composed of dirty, sexual jokes which can be...rather awkward to joke around with most people, especially the type of guys I was surrounded by growing up. I've only had one guy, that I consider more of a brother, that I've been good friends with since childhood.

But I guess the opposite genders can become friends and stay friends as long as they don't catch feelings for each other. Deen ahaan, that's a big no-no.

 

[bluebird]

I hate to say it but

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[Keo]

Even if I found a girl not attractive I still wouldn't be friends with one

 

[Soma]

I think they can, but I prefer the company of women. I don't see the point in being friends with men.