Bruv, as a heterosexual man, you are required to tame your lust for a woman who isn't your wife. You can't control the lust itself, but you should be able to control yourself from acting such devious behaviors. It's the same for people who have feelings for the same sex, they're obliged to keep it in check.Their behaviors are depraved and are fiercely condemned by the Lord (SWT), so they should listen to his word. And people in general who yearn for obtaining something they can't have, they can't just steal it. Discipline is something essential in this world--a world where the devil is always whispering in your ear trying to make you go to Hell. If trying to save your soul in the Akhirah is going to get labeled as "regressive", then you ought to find a better insult. What you "want" is never what's actually good for you. Why do you think drug addictions are a thing?