Being submissive to your husband.

[Waaqo of Punt]

Marriage is more than that. Maybe your kind gets married just to dominate but mariage is about companionship something that islam has explained. Somali couples in the west are actually very happy. Degenerate people that you see on youtube or twitter represent a few compared to the normal and decent somalis out there working hard while keeping their religion . It Must hurt to be negative 24/7. Drink some tea.

You're trying to portray a nice image though knowing that it's not so...
I live in London and the current generation of Somali couples here are either fobs or married to ajnabis. They get bullied hard at school just for being Somali and end up smoking weed after high school. Not saying this is a majority or a minority but it's def a large % and it's visible.

 

[Tukraq]

You're trying to portray a nice image though knowing that it's not so...
I live in London and the current generation of Somali couples here are either fobs or married to ajnabis. They get bullied hard at school just for being Somali and end up smoking weed after high school. Not saying this is a majority or a minority but it's def a large % and it's visible.

how bad was the bullying? and what exactly did it entail for our reer Uk, this is always hard for me to imagine personally a Somali getting bullied but I guess its common over there

 

[Farhiya 687]

Being submissive is a feminine trait. Being dominant is a masculine trait. It's very simple because masculine energy is about governing the relationship and feminine energy is only submissive in the presence of masculine strength, not weakness.

By submissive woman, I am referring to the more traditional type of woman. She might have a job and even do financially well, but she prioritizes her family and her relationships. In the relationship she tends to defer more to her man, be less opinionated and, overall, be more submissive.

Healthy submissive relationships are conscious and consensual. In other words, one party has agreed to hold more power of one kind or another. The other party has agreed to submit which is Islamically encouraged.

This decent perspective it’s definitely about consensual. It’s depends on the person. Some guys are ahh strong and cool person. So you want to see them happy. Especially when they usually do nice stuff for me. You kinda want to serve them too.

 

[saredochani10]

You're trying to portray a nice image though knowing that it's not so...
I live in London and the current generation of Somali couples here are either fobs or married to ajnabis. They get bullied hard at school just for being Somali and end up smoking weed after high school. Not saying this is a majority or a minority but it's def a large % and it's visible.

Somalis in UK are from another planet. Can't disagree with that. Maybe inquisitive is from the UK and has seen shocking stuff. @Inquisitive_ Ever thought about therapy walaal ? I hope you find peace in your heart.

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

this is always hard for me to imagine personally a Somali getting bullied

XDD. If only u knew. i don't know wether reer uk malis have been lying or trying to cover up the truth and fate of London Somalis. Too many Somali kids get bullied in school by Madows, indoyaars and etc. Wallahi if they're in a group and get cussed out for being Somali by their "friends" they just laugh along, i've seen thIs 100 times. It's either about forehead, migrant, refugee or dark af, u name it. It's actually become an insult to call someone "somali" wallahi u could be indian and get called Somali out of spite.
I remember this Somali kid in my year called ahmed who unfortunately had a big ass and bucke teeth. He got constantly insulted for being for years and got called abdi wllahi I stopped feeling sorry for him. If u hate ur own people and don't stand up to Madows then thats ur fault i guess

 

[Tukraq]

XDD. If only u knew. i don't know wether reer uk malis have been lying or trying to cover up the truth and fate of London Somalis. Too many Somali kids get bullied in school by Madows, indoyaars and etc. Wallahi if they're in a group and get cussed out for being Somali by their "friends" they just laugh along, i've seen thIs 100 times. It's either about forehead, migrant, refugee or dark af, u name it. It's actually become an insult to call someone "somali" wallahi u could be indian and get called Somali out of spite.
I remember this Somali kid in my year called ahmed who unfortunately had a big ass and bucke teeth. He got constantly insulted for being for years and got called abdi wllahi I stopped feeling sorry for him. If u hate ur own people and don't stand up to Madows then thats ur fault i guess

yeah would defiantly not happen hear as were feared, but damn even indoyaar making fun of them imagine
what led to them being so effeminate compared to their US and Canadian counterparts? even fobs wouldn't allow this or even their parents who have a don't give af attitude, where did they get this from?

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

yeah would defiantly not happen hear as were feared, but damn even indoyaar making fun of them imagine
what led to them being so effeminate compared to their US and Canadian counterparts? even fobs wouldn't allow this or even their parents who have a don't give af attitude, where did they get this from?

No clue. I never see this with Ethio or Eris in London, maybe because of functional family and culture? Nobody knows.

I heard reer Canada are degenerate henny addicts but at least they run the streets...?

 

[Inquisitive_]

Healthy submissive relationships are conscious and consensual. In other words, one party has agreed to hold more power of one kind or another. The other party has agreed to submit which is Islamically encouraged.

The female is biologically hard wired to submit to power and authority only.

She doesn't have the ability to consciously decide who she will submit to and who she will not.

These are all logical decisions and positions which are only inherit in males only.

Therefore you can do this, but she can't since emotions overrides her logic

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

The female is biologically hard wired to submit to power and authority only.

She doesn't have the ability to consciously decide who she will submit to and who she will not.

These are all logical decisions and positions which are only inherit in males only.

Therefore you can do this, but she can't since emotions overrides her logic

 

[Tukraq]

the guys hilarious, he would be a good match for @Knowles, it would be a fiery couple

 

[QueenSamaale]

At this point, I'm seriously starting to think he's a robot.

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

the guys hilarious, he would be a good match for @Knowles, it would be a fiery couple

For real.

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

At this point, I'm seriously starting to think he's a robot.

I thought there must be a fermented camel milk drinking suugo scientist behind the screen

 

[QueenSamaale]

I can see it now.​

 

[saredochani10]

The female is biologically hard wired to submit to power and authority only.

She doesn't have the ability to consciously decide who she will submit to and who she will not.

These are all logical decisions and positions which are only inherit in males only.

Therefore you can do this, but she can't since emotions overrides her logic

I take it back warya. You don't need therapy but Roqya.

 

[Inquisitive_]

Marriage is more than that. Maybe your kind gets married just to dominate but mariage is about companionship something that islam has explained. Somali couples in the west are actually very happy. Degenerate people that you see on youtube or twitter represent a few compared to the normal and decent somalis out there working hard while keeping their religion . It Must hurt to be negative 24/7. Drink some tea.

Marriage is a contract and as part of that contract the male is placed in a position of authority over you.

You can't have two captains on a boat steering the same ship or two CEO's running the same company, it's complete lunacy.

Even worse is the idea of "mutual agreement" or split "authority", no business or organisation is ever run like this and marriage is more important then both.

Yes your opinions and suggestions will not be dismissed outright unless your crazy (which I think you are), but ultimately there has to be a hierarchy for order to prevail, otherwise it's complete chaos as we see today.

The fact you don't see this ensuing chaos tells me you live in a crazed alternative reality completely detached from this world, I suggest you stick to your Yogi topics huuno, this is too much for you.

 

[Inquisitive_]

the guys hilarious, he would be a good match for @Knowles, it would be a fiery couple

What exactly is hilarious about what I posted ?have we reached a point that 'facts' have become laughable?

Your too smart to agree to the proposition that a female can make a logical 'conscious' decision on which male she will submit herself to and which she won't.

The idea that they can override there biological predisposition to authority/power with logic is absurd.

 

[Tukraq]

What exactly is hilarious about what I posted bro? have we reached a point that 'facts' have become laughable?

Your too smart to agree to the proposition that a female can make a logical 'conscious' decision on which male she will submit herself to and which she won't.

The idea that they can override there biological predisposition to authority/power with logic is absurd.

the male @Knowles

 

[saredochani10]

Marriage is a contract and as part of that contract the male is placed in a position of authority over you.

You can't have two captains on a boat steering the same ship or two CEO's running the same company, it's complete lunacy.

Even worse is the idea of "mutual agreement" or split "authority", no business or organisation is ever run like this and marriage is more important then both.

Yes your opinions and suggestions will not be dismissed outright unless your crazy (which I think you are), but ultimately there has to be a hierarchy for order to prevail, otherwise it's complete chaos as we see today.

The fact you don't see this ensuing chaos tells me you live in a crazed alternative reality completely detached from this world, I suggest you stick to your Yogi topics huuno, this is too much for you.

Why are your arguments always the same. Rewire your brain.

 

[Dino]

Marriage is a contract and as part of that contract the male is placed in a position of authority over you.

You can't have two captains on a boat steering the same ship or two CEO's running the same company, it's complete lunacy.

Even worse is the idea of "mutual agreement" or split "authority", no business or organisation is ever run like this and marriage is more important then both.

Yes your opinions and suggestions will not be dismissed outright unless your crazy (which I think you are), but ultimately there has to be a hierarchy for order to prevail, otherwise it's complete chaos as we see today.

The fact you don't see this ensuing chaos tells me you live in a crazed alternative reality completely detached from this world, I suggest you stick to your Yogi topics huuno, this is too much for you.

It's amazing that we have xalimos in this century who can't understand the basic concept of men authority in a family. Like my old boss used to say 'everyone got an opinion but at the end of the day i have got to make a decision'

The number one thing the xalimos need to understand is that men crave respect above all else. When you tell a man you love him it dont mean jack. When you whisper sweet things in his ear it means nothing. However if you listen to him, if you follow his commands if you take his decisions seriously that shows LOVE to a man. A man only will believe that you love him if you show him respect.

A man views love through the actions of respecting him. And to be respectful you need to honor by following his commands and not undermining his authority.

Nothing turns a man off more than a screaming banshee who thinks she ought to run the show and relegate the man to a sideshow character