Another sad xalimo marries out. No selfworth

[halwa]

I mean it doesn’t make sense for you to write a whole essay about her (which you’ve cherry picked and twisted the narrative to) and then slander her online. She’s come onto the platform to tell other girls of what has happened to her as a result of the bad mistake she has done and to stray far away from marrying someone you’ve never met. She also mentions that girls should go about it in a more respectful manner when telling their parents about the person they want to marry (if the parents refuse). She’s not sat there advocating what she did is right. Nor is she bragging about it. You can actually see and sense the shock and trauma she’s faced in her voice, as a result of the situation she’s put herself into.


So it doesn’t make any sense for you to sit behind your screen and badmouth her because she’s already ashamed of herself. It is a lesson received, lesson learned and her story is inspiring a lot of young Somali girls (to stay strong, independent, rational and logical when courting someone);if not, saving these girls from falling into the same trap as she did. Don’t be so judgemental.


PS: She was born in Uganda. Not the US.

 

[Abdalla]

She calls herself naag nool, more like naag dhimatey

 

[repo]

Fell in love over the internet.

 

[Samaalic Era]

She calls herself naag nool, more like naag dhimatey

She did Somalis worldwide a favour.
All hideous land whales should marry out

We shall purify the Samaale race,one at a time

 

[Jaydaan]

I mean it doesn’t make sense for you to write a whole essay about her (which you’ve cherry picked and twisted the narrative to) and then slander her online. She’s come onto the platform to tell other girls of what has happened to her as a result of the bad mistake she has done and to stray far away from marrying someone you’ve never met. She also mentions that girls should go about it in a more respectful manner when telling their parents about the person they want to marry (if the parents refuse). She’s not sat there advocating what she did is right. Nor is she bragging about it. You can actually see and sense the shock and trauma she’s faced in her voice, as a result of the situation she’s put herself into.


So it doesn’t make any sense for you to sit behind your screen and badmouth her because she’s already ashamed of herself. It is a lesson received, lesson learned and her story is inspiring a lot of young Somali girls (to stay strong, independent, rational and logical when courting someone);if not, saving these girls from falling into the same trap as she did. Don’t be so judgemental.


PS: She was born in Uganda. Not the US.

She claims somalis are racist and im gonna give her slack? She is on the internet saying her family was racist for not saying straight away marry a man none of us has met and said to her he is too busy to meet her family. She went to different state for some fake imam give her away? She is pathetic and should be called out. If saying the truth is judgemental then so be it. Anyway she is another chick trying to launch a Youtube career with this nonsense

 

[911]

She is pretty

 

[Muji]

She calls herself naag nool, more like naag dhimatey

Didn’t you meet someone over the Internet too recently?

@halwa to be fair I don’t think anyone needs to be told you shouldn’t marry a Madow you haven’t ever met

 

[Abdalla]

Didn’t you meet someone over the Internet too recently?

2015 is not recently

 

[Nilotufian]

Shouldn’t she be cacaaling about the fact she’s a single parent at 25 not how racist Somali parents can be priorities all ova da gaff

 

[Abdalla]

@Reiko tried to convince me to fly over for her

 

[Gibiin-Udug]

@Reiko tried to convince me to fly over for her

You asked me to pay for your Portugal trip because I’m your ina-adeer. Why are you lying?

 

[Halimo-2018]

She is beautiful. Maybe he was the first guy that showed her attention. This is why somalis need to have less kids so they can install confidence in their kids at a young age specifically girls. Smh

 

[saredochani10]

Ok back to the story. In a scale 1-10 how sad is this girl?

She has been very naive. I can understand her family.

 

[Waaqo of Punt]

Somalis are toxic period. Even if parents raise their kids right, teaching them self love etc there are always people making comments on their skintone/hair or something else. Somalis are self haters themselves and like light skinned women who look Arab. In this forum every time a xalimo does something they are quick to mention her dark skin tone as if it was something negative.

I've been saying this the whole team but I get called 'self hater' or 'opp'. This is y faraaxs are now chasing habesha tings. They're colourist.

 

[VantaBlack]

What business of anyone's is it, who these women marry?

What a weird obsession.

 

[Halimo-2018]

What business of anyone's is it, who these women marry?

What a weird obsession.

No one but she shared it with the world of course people will gossip. I feel bad for her.

 

[NotMyL]

When is part 2 coming out? I’m interested although we already know how it ends

 

[Vanessa]

I’m glad she open up and told a cautionary story for young Somali girls.

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

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[Jaydaan]

What business of anyone's is it, who these women marry?

What a weird obsession.

What business do you have in somali forum?