Psychologist
Changemaker
as i said before beauty is subjective so people will have different opinion on everything one finds beautiful but the problem is saying you don't find one attracted because of their hair or color,Arguing about why other people have different beauty standards to yourself that you consider "weird" is redundant. People will like what they like and there's nothing you can do to change it.
What people consider attractive is not the same across the board & will differ on each individual.
that's weird ass reasoning
Also the environment we grow up plays a role on what we find beautiful so it could have been something that was taught to them "Kinky is this and that" if one opinion is negative is better for them to keep it to themselves. at the end of the day i wish they end up with someone they love and that loves them back