black men be like "black b words not fine/rich/xyz enough to carry my legacy" meanwhile their legacy is generational trauma, poverty, and mental illness. 85% of bw are breadwinners in their families even when they have a partner. majority of black men are unambitious and have extreme daddy/mommy issues and low self esteem due to racism so they take it out on the black women in their lives- the only ones who are willing to support them. they also frequently trap bw with babies to have a guaranteed lifetimes worth of access to her for sex, money, shelter, and love. black men try to impregnate as many women as possible to secure resources when they know they're bums and have nothing to offer.
BLACK WOMEN: NEVER SETTLE. STOP LISTENING TO THE PEOPLE TELLING YOU TO HOLD A BROTHER DOWN. Billy, Abdul, Genaro, etc may not know how to speak AAVE or do certain dances but they won't have you working 50+ hr weeks while pregnant then make you come home to cook, clean, child rear, do errands, house maintenance, and still give them sex- without even an engagement ring. Darrell will do all of that then turn around and beat on you, gaslight you, steal from you, cheat, etc. No ma'am. This isn't every black man but how many operate.
If a righteous black man comes along MASHA'ALLAH settle down! but don't think waiting for one is noble when you other options (better options) available.