Righteous response. Much respect to you ahki.
Advice on a Somali woman
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It's not bs but you have the right to your opinion
Her past is not your business to be honest, as every Muslim has the right to repent. Secondly, you are a revert and also have a 'past'.
There is nothing wrong with a woman not wanting to share her husband.
However, you said she is:
-Ratched
-Confrontational
But you said that you "flex" on her and what's with the women that she is concerned with? Are you a womaniser?
I don't see this going well, unless you both go to therapy and work on your communication styles.
Black people in the West appear to have a very superficial view on race, I think this is due to the fact that many were taken from different parts of West and Central Africa and forced together, so the only link they shared was skin colour. Add onto this the fact that most Africans have Niger-Congo roots and now they think we're all the same people.
What is "Black" and "African" supposed to mean to a Somali? Shared colonial trauma? Shared African landmass?
Indians, Aboriginals and others also share a skin colour with us and are also as foreign to us in terms of their language, culture, customs and religion as other African/Black people.
yeah. they get " married" for like an hour and destroy the contract afterwards lol
I think they are naive about the cultural and genetic diversity of Africa and understand race through colour coded terms. As that is the conceptualization of race imposed on them. Their ancestors had no agency to marry someone from their community, or preserve their heritage. Those from the same ethnic background were segregated from each other to prevent rebellions, their roots were decimated and all they had to relate to was being from the same continent or skin tone and were unable to marry or select a mate.
I think some would like to be from the Horn but there is no shared origins, history nor complicity in the transatlantic slave trade (which was all Niger-Congo groups).
North East Africans arrived for the first time as a part of the newer wave of African migration to the Americas during the 20th C as international students, economic immigrants or asylum seekers.
As for colonial traumas it impacted each African group differently. They are dealing with post traumatic trauma from generations of slavery and racism. Bear in mind those in North America had it worse.
It can't compare to one generation of war trauma, statelessness and host country adaptation which was experienced differently from family-to-family with social capital moderating this. Somalis have it a lot easier being culturally and religiously intact and are a more cohesive community despite qabil differences.
I wouldnt accept my brother to marry someone like that. My answer to you will be let her go, when i hear she follows a lot of guys n likes cardi b n all that, she is ghetto.
Xaruun
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90% of people are hoes???Most people have a past unless they're in the top 90th percentile in terms of Imaan. Making the assumption that the girl/woman you're talking to has a past isn't meant to be insulting, it's being pragmatic. It's not like she was frozen in stasis until we came along. Chaste people belong with chaste people but a lot of people, men included, want to have their cake and eat it tooo!β
Youβre grossly overexaggerating. We arenβt gaalraac bro. Avoiding zina isnβt that hard. You probably just hang around saqajaans.
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Chaste people are usually lowkey and stick to their hobbies, deen and/or careers.
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Mukhy
Somalilander | Habr Jeclo | Muslim | Barça Fan
I want a xalimo with:
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You are Latino. Get yourself em gorgeous Latino ladies
Every man wants them and your going for a unstable Somali single mom with 2 kids? Bro, not to be rude but what are you thinking? If a Latino woman gave Abdis on this site a little bit of attention. They'll jump ship real fast
Every man wants them and your going for a unstable Somali single mom with 2 kids? Bro, not to be rude but what are you thinking? If a Latino woman gave Abdis on this site a little bit of attention. They'll jump ship real fast
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exposedmeat
i do it anyway i like
you sure, waqooyi woman are a little bit aggressive, they probably gonna be the man of the house that's why am not marry any waqooyis, am gonna find my self abgaal or rahanweyn with that soft accent i know am already safeI want a xalimo with:
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Caught the insecure farah.
Orale is Mexican slang but you said you were Dominican or Afro Latino lmao
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