I don't know what mutah is but this comment made me laugh I admit.seriously? from the description alone I can already see the two of you fighting.these days ratchet people treat marriage like mutah or haram bf/gf relationships that last no more than two years, its always based on lust and other frivolous matters...
Advice on a Somali woman
- Thread starter Gaspar Yanga
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Yes from what I understand. She was married once.
Bruh what is that? I don't abuse kids wtf? And it seems like you are shading her...that wasn't called for fam.
That African ancestry isn't from the same part of Africa. You have blood ties with West and Central African peoples. Also African heritage is not a unifying factor for Somalis. Somalis even consider ethnolingustic groups that are genetically and culturally closer like Oromo 'foreigners'. Hence, you are pretty much in the same league of foreign as a person of Asian or European descent. They won't make an exception for you because of African links that are probably separated by 40,000 years or more. However, you are free to marry who you like. Judging by the description it would be a challenge. Good luck. Even though I feel this is a troll account.
Bollocks, you're not "afro-latino" you're a farah with an axe to grind 
If you're being legit though, I'd move on whilst your sanity's still intact. The retroactive jealousy will doom your marriage, if a girl's past bothers you then don't marry her Gustavo. It's that simple.
If you're being legit though, I'd move on whilst your sanity's still intact. The retroactive jealousy will doom your marriage, if a girl's past bothers you then don't marry her Gustavo. It's that simple.
Don't marry her, no matter what you do.
I'm not a troll. And we call you guys Africanos cuz you look black. I get that you don't see yourselves the same as other Africans but in the west we call dark-skinned people from Africa Africans. The Arabs I know from Egypt and Tunisia call themselves Africans too, so perdoname (excuse me) for the confusion. I've seen some of you say you are black and others say you are Caucasian so I really don't know to be honest.
I don't have to read the rest of the paragraph to know this is an incel farax.
Bollocks, you're not "afro-latino" you're a farah with an axe to grind
If you're being legit though, I'd move on whilst your sanity's still intact. The retroactive jealousy will doom your marriage, if a girl's past bothers you then don't marry her Gustavo. It's that simple.
I'm not a farah. And the only reason I asked about the past is that I saw other dudes on here say you should.
I'm not a Somali...I only know a few Somali words. English is my main language and I speak some Spanish from my abuela (grandmother in English).
Why not? I think she would make a good wife if she is who I think she is.
I'm not a troll. And we call you guys Africanos cuz you look black. I get that you don't see yourselves the same as other Africans but in the west we call dark-skinned people from Africa Africans. The Arabs I know from Egypt and Tunisia call themselves Africans too, so perdoname (excuse me) for the confusion. I've seen some of you say you are black and others say you are Caucasian so I really don't know to be honest.
Most Somalis just consider themselves Somali. This isn't a discussion on identity politics we're just filling you in on what we know. I just think it's naive to believe that being African alone will be enough of a bridge. Not all of them are related for starters. They have different heritages and cultures. Not a Pan-African identity that traverses national or ethnic boundaries. That is more of a North and South American construct. Also, Somali parents consider all non-Somalis as different and foreign. Nothing personal.
Pro tip: they're never 100% about their past, you'll get the tip of the ice-berg at best. Seeing as you're a revert, you probably did dirt as well. But if her past bothers you, it'll only get worse after marriage.
I can understand that. There's similar things in Latin America. We don't have tribes in Latin America outside of the natives so I get it. I think you guys call tribes qabil or something like that. I don't see the importance of that but I'm only African by ancestry. We look more at countries in Latin America but even then we don't make a HUGE deal about that.
Yeah I was a ladies' man back in the gap, true. It didn't really bother me until I saw comments in here about being thorough and asking about her past. In Latin America we assume most of the broads were putas before we met them. It's like that red pill stuff where they say all women are slots. I figured it's different for people who follow the deen so I read up on it in here. Some of the xalimos surprised me with how similar they are to the kaffireen, so I decided to ask you guys the deal. None of us are even close to the Prophet so I don't expect someone to be perfect.
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Finding a wife should not be this complicated, alx at my university we have a somali club full of beautiful hijabi somalis. All I gotta do is just pick one out of the hundreds.
Orale I'm not trolling. I already said that.
Nigga the way you decribed her. Fat with 2 kids and she is ratched. You should deff marry her. Thats queen shit right there
