Ilbaax ba tihin. You guys marry everything.MJs don't care what qabil your from, we don't have this problem I don't know what you mean be careful, we intermarry with hawiye allot lol
That’s weird bc usually they’re long held opinions, but your father started hating Isaaq a year ago.
is your pops a hardcore nationalist or did your family have any negative history with isaaqs? whats the underlying reason? or is it the lack of connection and intermarrying between the two clans so if he does something wrong to you they can't use xeer or qabil law, you should and have the right to a better explanation, I feel he's doing it in good faith
True. Hence why i said she should involve an imaam who can hopefully convince her dad to change his mind. It is her choice in the end tho
They’re too rigid for a Western-born Somali (I’m assuming) to not have been strongly influenced.
Tell your dad you will bring ajnabi dude home if he does not change his mind asap. And see what happens lol
its probably due to after the 90, mjs hawiyes and issaqs were against barre but issaq took the session path, if he's a strong nationalist with extreme views on that I can see how it can cause problems tbh
Yes he could be a hardcore nationalist. If that's the case, @Linalina can say her fiance supports unification or even better that he is actually from Haud, Ethiopia. (Only works if he is Garxajis)
Ajnabi is too vague. She need to use the J word. Jameeekaaan
I don't think he said he only wants hawiye just has a problem with issaq, I don't think anyone limits it to there own clan lolThere’s probably 100,000 Somalis max in whatever diaspora you’re from. 50% of them are women, 15% are elderly men, 20% are kids.
So out of the 15% eligible age men left, let’s say that 5% are losers, 5% are married. So that leaves you 5% of decent eligible aged Somali men to court, that’s still a lot. But now since your father won’t let you marry outside your tribe unfortunately your gonna have to cut that 5% down to 1% who are Hawiye.
What I’m tryna say here is you might not get married any time soon.
Woah both of them ? That’s crazy
Mjs are prejudiced too bro. My grandmother told my uncle, hell no to him marrying a sheikhal. I always thought family refusing because of qabil was non sense till I witnessed that episode. Pretty surreal to see can’t lie.MJs don't care what qabil your from, we don't have this problem I don't know what you mean be careful, we intermarry with hawiye allot lol
first off he's a guy, nobody cares about the wives qabil she inherits yours so that sounds sketchy
secondly your grandmother would have no say in that matter it would be grandpas call
