Confession: I Dont Care If my Wife Was Once Ran Through

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Jake from State Farm

We pro xalimo all 2019
The likelihood of settling down with a virgin is slim especially when you’re looking for girls who are down to do something before marriage


Corrupt women are for corrupt men, and corrupt men for corrupt women. Good women are for good men, and good men for good women'. 24:26

More people need to realize this. Especially as you get older. The older someone gets the less likely they have a chance of being a virgin.

I guess that explains why you have dudes who are in their high 20s and 30s that shoot for chicks that are in their low 20s.
 

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I’d rather just stay single tbh f*ck being in a dysfunctional marriage with a hoe wife who will eventually cheat on you, divorce you, take your children etc.
 
Have you spent any significant amount of time dating? Not throwing shade bro but in my experience when you delve into the topic of sex I suspect you would be surprised at how many admit to being active. Are there more chaste women than active women? Of course! But lets not get it twisted a LOT of people have had a sexual past in some form or another. My theory? We are all just too animalistic that given the opportunity in the right environment we do whatever with our significant other. Not to be too crass but cant tell you the amount of times I had to remind xaliimos to take off their hijab before they proceed to do a certain act on me.
They are just good at hiding it.Marrying a woman who had sex before marriage is good, you can use it as an excuse to divorce later on.
 
s should marry s, I'm irreligious but you won't catch me acting a fool like some people. Everyone should wait till marriage to lessen their exposure to disease, it's the only sensible thing to do.
 

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Virgins attract virgins, walaal :kodaksmiley:Promiscuous men don't deserve pure women.

Agreed. Question what if you are a virgin and marry later in life? :farmajoyaab: What choices would be left over? Sadly, the ex-male s might be the only elgibles. That is if you preclude the previously married. But no point in adding baggage on when you only have a carryon.
 

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Right because virgin men and women are so upfront :bell:

Virgins aren't all the same and they vary in religiousity and other characteristics. Some are compassionate and pious. Others aren't as religious and don't look the part. Some use virginity as a weapon or bargaining chip. Some stay virgins for their self-empowerment. Some are full virgins, others are technical but have done everything else. Some have zero desire to be in a relationship. Others want something more meaningful like an LTR through marriage (a greater feeling of security). Some are too lazy to have relations with others. Some have zero desire. Some are more concerned about relationships over action. Some read articles about mutant strain STIs that are antibiotic resistant. Some are straight edge (doing it out of preference), others are doing so more for religious reasons to comply with their faith. And lastly, some are voluntary virgins while others are involuntarily so.
:samwelcome: Thank me later.
 
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Jake from State Farm

We pro xalimo all 2019
Agreed. Question what if you are a virgin and marry later in life? :farmajoyaab: What choices would be left over? Sadly, the ex-male s might be the only elgibles. That is if you preclude the previously married. But no point in adding baggage on when you only have a carryon.
I have thought about this for a bit.

I know people that legit just got into med school at ages of 25-26
By the time they finish school they will be 29-30. By the time they finish their residencies they will be like 33-35.

Abstainting that long honeslty sounds tough.

At that point. A majority of the Muslim females ur age would most likely be married, divorced, or(not trying to be rude) a ex .

30 year old virgins must be rare.
I can see why older dudes are marrying down
 

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I have thought about this for a bit.

I know people that legit just got into med school at ages of 25-26
By the time they finish school they will be 29-30. By the time they finish their residencies they will be like 33-35.

Abstainting that long honeslty sounds tough.

At that point. A majority of the Muslim females ur age would most likely be married, divorced, or(not trying to be rude) a ex .

30 year old virgins must be rare.
I can see why older dudes are marrying down

And I can understand how my stock is sky high.:rejoice: I'm not the only one, though. That's a myth. Not particularly common as many have married and some are divorced but certainly not non-existent either. My closest Somali friends are just like me.

Also Jerome,

It's not hard at all. It's just a way of life.
 
A lot of these girls are walking contradictions, they claim to be pious and miskeen but get fucked on the down-low. I heard from many of my non-Somali friends that they had sexual encounters with Somali girls from Toronto. One white friend told me a girl wanted him to convert to Islam, so that they could get married, he freaked out about this because she was talking about marriage way too early in the relationship.
 
Fornicating man for the fornicating woman.

If you are a non virgin man, don't you dare expect to marry a virgin and judge non virgin women.

A man that isn't a virgin has no leg to stand on. Focus on your own sins.

Also, those that aren't virgins men/women make Tawba and do not expose your sins.
 

Jake from State Farm

We pro xalimo all 2019
And I can understand how my stock is sky high.:rejoice: I'm not the only one, though. That's a myth. Not particularly common as many have married and some are divorced but certainly not non-existent either. My closest Somali friends are just like me.

Also Jerome,

It's not hard at all. It's just a way of life.
At that age you won’t exactly be able to pinpoint which 30 year old is a virgin though. Unless you go around asking.

At that point most would either marry someone younger or just marry a non virgin.
 
I have thought about this for a bit.

I know people that legit just got into med school at ages of 25-26
By the time they finish school they will be 29-30. By the time they finish their residencies they will be like 33-35.

Abstainting that long honeslty sounds tough.

At that point. A majority of the Muslim females ur age would most likely be married, divorced, or(not trying to be rude) a ex .

30 year old virgins must be rare.
I can see why older dudes are marrying down

I know a lot of women in their late 20s that have kept themselves to themselves and are indeed virgins.

The reason why a few guys doubt this is that they have been in an enviroment of sin and debauchery and therefore assume everyone is like them.

Wallah what disgusts me is that these men will sleep with other peoples daughters, sisters thus engaging in sin but expect to marry a 'pure' woman. The level of entitlement is sickening considering the fact that our religion itself makes it clear men that such men do not deserve chaste women. Also, Allah punishes people in the dunya.

Remember none of you guys that have slept around are no different to these hos and es that you hate. Your life would be easier if you made Tawba for your sins rather than judging women.

If anything you are worse. You're a fornicator, a hypocrite and entitled. Three horrible combinations.
 
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