Why somali males always want to have many children?

Odious Delirium · Apr 16, 2023

iskufilann said:
They want to form their own tribe sis

Who doesn't :lolbron:

inacabdillahi · Apr 16, 2023

Bari🐍 said:
It's in our DNA or something. Both of my grandfathers had 20+ children (more than 1 wife). I also want to have many, they bring blessings from Allah it's a good thing. My suggestion is if you want a lot don't have them in the west, it would be too expensive. In a country like Somalia or Kenya, polygamy is more normal and cheaper along with the cost of living being lower.

I wouldn’t accept polygamy. I’m a female btw if you didn’t know.

Odious Delirium · Apr 16, 2023

Bari🐍 said:
I'm going to have 40 children and before I die announce that I'm leaving my inheritance to only one. They will all have to duke it out in a series of competitions like squid game if they want to inherit everything.

That's haram and won't be accepted islamically

Bari🐍 · Apr 16, 2023

Javelin said:
That's haram and won't be accepted islamically

Let me have some entertainment

Odious Delirium · Apr 16, 2023

Bari🐍 said:
Let me have some entertainment

You can do it while your alive and not on your death bed. that is an alternative

Bari🐍 · Apr 16, 2023

inacabdillahi said:
I wouldn’t accept polygamy. I’m a female btw if you didn’t know.

That's why I said Somalia or Kenya. It's illegal in the west and socially unacceptable. Women back home are more open to it because many still rely on men.

iskufilann · Apr 16, 2023

Javelin said:
Who doesn't

If you going to have 10+ kids with one woman, then that's okay. But with 4 different wives, the children won't know each other unless you're planning to marry 4 sisters :deadpeter:

inacabdillahi · Apr 16, 2023

Bari🐍 said:
That's why I said Somalia or Kenya. It's illegal in the west and socially unacceptable. Women back home are more open to it because many still rely on men.

I wouldn’t want a man who wants to take second wife.

Dualke · Apr 16, 2023

Qabil, better get to it :win:

Odious Delirium · Apr 16, 2023

iskufilann said:
If you going to have 10+ kids with one woman, then that's okay. But with 4 different wives, the children won't know each other unless you're planning to marry 4 sisters

Lol I'm messing around and you can't marry multiple sisters in the same marriage islamically its haram :dead:

iskufilann · Apr 16, 2023

inacabdillahi said:
I wouldn’t want a man who wants to take second wife.

Technically it's allowed in Islam sis, but I wouldn't want my man to get a second wife

Odious Delirium · Apr 16, 2023

iskufilann said:
If you going to have 10+ kids with one woman, then that's okay. But with 4 different wives, the children won't know each other unless you're planning to marry 4 sisters

The kids can know each other if you raise them together but regardless juggling multiple wives while being just in acordance to deen is quite the ask.

I'm not planning on getting multiple wives at the same time right now. I need to first deal with having one for starters :dead1:

El Nino · Apr 16, 2023

Your children are your pension, the more kids you raise successfully, the more will they pay it back when you are old and dependent on others.

I have 6 siblings, Im the 2nd oldest. My parents have raised us well and we are pursuing lucrative careers. My dad will retire in 1 years time InshAllah, before he even reaches 60 years. Mum is already retired. My parents can now focus on their health and Inshallah will help with child rearing soon.

Now even if all 7 of us did xamaali, are parents could live off us and retire. We would be able to care to them by splitting the needed money and the time needed for help.

iskufilann · Apr 16, 2023

Javelin said:
The kids can know each other if you raise them together but regardless juggling multiple wives while being just in acordance to deen is quite the ask.

I'm not planning on getting multiple wives at the same time right now. I need to first deal with having one for starters

Yaraye · Apr 16, 2023

inacabdillahi said:
I wouldn’t accept polygamy. I’m a female btw if you didn’t know.

you could always put it in the marriage contract :ulyin:

if they truly want to marry you they'll abide. If not, they'll just go on their way. No heartbreak or wasting years away :denzelnigga:

Yaraye · Apr 16, 2023

Javelin said:
The kids can know each other if you raise them together but regardless juggling multiple wives while being just in acordance to deen is quite the ask.

I'm not planning on getting multiple wives at the same time right now. I need to first deal with having one for starters

nah, they won't know each other unless they live around the same area. Also kids with different mothers don't tend to like each other. I'm not saying it's impossible, but it highly likely that they'll not have a sibling-ship as compared to siblings that share a mother but have different fathers.