You will never be someone's 1st choice.

[Basic]

@Nak Muay You seem like you don’t have a good people radar and you seem to learn a lot through experience. Atleast you learn..

 

[A.Samatar]

Falling in love is not the same as getting married. The latter is all too common.

 

[Nak Muay]

@Nak Muay You seem like you don’t have a good people radar and you seem to learn a lot through experience. Atleast you learn..

"Good people radar"? Your comment seems a little vague.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

@Nak Muay the way I see it is my future husband may have spoken to other women before me but out of all the women I will be his favourite. Hencewhy he is marrying me not them.

 

[Sloane Ranger]

AM I YOUR DADDY

I can never think of my niin as my abo. That's just weird aboowe.

 

[Basic]

"Good people radar"? Your comment seems a little vague.

You can’t read people well hun x

 

[Bronco]

@Nak Muay the way I see it is my future husband may have spoken to other women before me but out of all the women I will be his favourite. Hencewhy he is marrying me not them.

What if one of them said no thanks to him, leaving him with no choice but to go with his #2, or worse #7. Then what?

 

[Nak Muay]

@Nak Muay the way I see it is my future husband may have spoken to other women before me but out of all the women I will be his favourite. Hencewhy he is marrying me not them.

That's actually a healthy mindset to have wallahi, people aren't frozen in stasis till we come along

You can’t read people well hun x

I can read people just fine, they just need to be aware of the harsh reality sometimes. I'd be doing my friend a disservice if I indulged his Disney "soulmate" delusions lol

 

[Yukon_Niner]

"Good people radar"? Your comment seems a little vague.

I think what @Basic meant to say is you keep meeting very shitty people and you lack the people "sense" to tell they're shitty people (the one's that people usually have). So you learn as you go.

Well that's my crappy translation, hope my eng lit skills haven't failed me.

 

[Amazonian]

@Nak Muay the way I see it is my future husband may have spoken to other women before me but out of all the women I will be his favourite. Hencewhy he is marrying me not them.

Or maybe he just wants babies and is just now done turning up

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[Octavian]

just marry ur cousin then niggas be complicating shit

 

[Sloane Ranger]

Or maybe he just wants babies and is just now done turning up

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No cap but sometimes I feel like I'm borderline psychic. I am very good at analysing body language, speech patterns and can often sense when a guy is being disingenuous. I find it quite easy getting a confession out of a guy. I don't see myself ending up with a reformed guy.

 

[Basra]

I think what @Basic meant to say is you keep meeting very shitty people and you lack the people "sense" to tell they're shitty people (the one's that people usually have). So you learn as you go.

Well that's my crappy translation, hope my eng lit skills haven't failed me.

With great power comes great electricity bill.

 

[Wir]

As long as your the first to get in

 

[Sumaaya]

Unless you meet someone in your teens while you're both virgins and then get marry, you'll never truly be someone's first choice.

It's a bitter pill to swallow but I thought everyone over a certain age understood this. Evidently not lol

My friend's about to do his nikkah and we were discussing the subject, he proceeded to start autistically screeching like some socially inept 15yr old.

If you've been in previous relationships, 9/10 the person you end up marrying isn't exactly your first choice, they're just the right choice for you at that particular time.
That concept's never bothered me, but people in relationships seem to freak the f*ck out if you suggest that's the case.

Yes, I will!! Don't tell me otherwise!!!!!!

 

[Basic]

I think what @Basic meant to say is you keep meeting very shitty people and you lack the people "sense" to tell they're shitty people (the one's that people usually have). So you learn as you go.

Well that's my crappy translation, hope my eng lit skills haven't failed me.

Bang on @Yukon_Niner

@Nak Muay It’s not a bad thing. Just means you come across as more cynical and jaded due to said experiences. I’m taking about your threads in general on here. I agree with you about the first choice thing though. Being someone’s first choice isn’t important x

 

[Viscount]

Unless you meet someone in your teens while you're both virgins and then get marry, you'll never truly be someone's first choice.

It's a bitter pill to swallow but I thought everyone over a certain age understood this. Evidently not lol

My friend's about to do his nikkah and we were discussing the subject, he proceeded to start autistically screeching like some socially inept 15yr old.

If you've been in previous relationships, 9/10 the person you end up marrying isn't exactly your first choice, they're just the right choice for you at that particular time.
That concept's never bothered me, but people in relationships seem to freak the f*ck out if you suggest that's the case.

The odds of meeting a virgin decrease as time elapses unless you go for somebody substantially younger than you, this goes for both genders. Your first choice isn't your last one, you will have to go through quality control to determine that your choice is a viable option. I would go into a relationship assuming that the person is not a virgin regardless, that's my opinion.

 

[Viscount]

Unless you meet someone in your teens while you're both virgins and then get marry, you'll never truly be someone's first choice.

It's a bitter pill to swallow but I thought everyone over a certain age understood this. Evidently not lol

My friend's about to do his nikkah and we were discussing the subject, he proceeded to start autistically screeching like some socially inept 15yr old.

If you've been in previous relationships, 9/10 the person you end up marrying isn't exactly your first choice, they're just the right choice for you at that particular time.
That concept's never bothered me, but people in relationships seem to freak the f*ck out if you suggest that's the case.

I knew a simp ass Somali guy who married a girl who was around town, I felt so bad for him his future wife smashed my cousin allegedly and a few of the guys I forgot to mention.

 

[Nak Muay]

I knew a simp ass Somali guy who married a girl who was around town, I felt so bad for him his future wife smashed my cousin allegedly and a few of the guys I forgot to mention.

If you're going to do dirt, at least have the decency of doing it in another city, not where you live.

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[Desert Flower]

Hmm, It's not that big of a deal. As long as he's treating me with the utmost respect, and chooses me and our children everyday, I could care less if I was his "first choice" as long as I'm his only choice (i.e. he isn't going anywhere and is truly committed).

I'm pragmatic. The only ones that I could love deeply are my children (iA).