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@Inquisitive_ awowe can you read the guy's posts i have quoted in my OP and give me your take on what he saying.
I agree with him 100% based on the quotes you posted, he is no softy or a dayuuth in the making, his daughters will not be fending on the streets for themselves like is the case today with 99% of our Xaalimo's with their absent or dayuuth fathers.
He expresses the sentiments of the type of men that would raise good, strong, stable, righteous households unlike the filth we have today because his predominant focus is religiosity in the women as the Prophet advised which brings success.
Yaḥyā b. Yaḥyā Al-NaysābūrĪ reports
Whoever goes for glory will be tried with ignominy, whoever goes for wealth will be tried with poverty, but whoever goes for religiousness, Allah will bring together for him glory and wealth with the religion
The hadÎth of ‘Â`ishah states that the Prophet – Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him – said, “The most blessed woman is she who is easiest to maintain.”
It is from the blessing in a woman that she has an easy dowry, an easy proposal [via her guardian] and an easy womb (i.e. she is fertile and bares children without difficulty). One of the reporters of this narration, ‘Urwah, said “And I say from myself, one of the first signs of evil from a woman is for her to have a high dowry.”
This ḥadĪth is recorded by Imām Aḥmad and others and is graded ḥasan by Shaykh Al-AlbānĪ.
The hadÎth of Yahyâ b. Ja’dah states that the Prophet – Allah’s peace and blessings be upon him – said, “A woman is married for four things: her religion, her status (lineage), her wealth or her beauty; so take the religious one and be successful.”